I bought my bf a bra & knickers set from M&S last night and he wore it while we made love and it was the best sex we've had ever! Is this a turn on for all guys? We talked about it after and he says he wants to go out as a woman. Is this a good idea or should I confine it the house? Do many couples do this? I have to confess I quite enjoyed it.
2007-06-20 23:10:24 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Kitten - I think its great that youre so open minded about your bf's love of girly undies. However, other people are NOT as accepting as you are. If you and he went out while he was dressed as a woman I fear that people may make comments (because people mock what they dont understand) and this could upset him. What you do at home is cool but for your saefty and comfort Id say KEEP it at home
hugs xx
2007-06-21 02:29:01 · answer #1 · answered by Secret Squirrel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want but remember that it is your life and not a spectacle for the rest of the world to gawp, be offended, make comments, sneer, lear or give their 2 cents.
In other words, you can't be upset if others don't find it so charming and have no right to get upset if others find it revolting.
Do you and your boyfriend have the confidence to do that or is it just for show?
Personally, I live in London and see old trannies on a daily basis so you'll probably be ok.
Just remember there's a lot more to it than just "putting on women's clothes".
2007-06-20 23:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in that courting now. the female i grow to be seeing earlier I have been given married grow to be greater open. Now, it rather is like if my spouse is going greater effective than 3 positions she swears she did something!...the unhappy element is two out of those 3 she does incorrectly...the two she only does not be responsive to a thank you to do those issues (no count what proportion situations I teach her or attempt to get her into place) or is only lazy...So I understand the rigors you're dealing with. My basically advice is do what i attempt to do while i'm fortunate sufficient to have intercourse and that's quite sluggish creation. it relatively is a discomfort and it rather is uninteresting, yet possibly sometime she'll capture on.
2016-10-02 21:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...hmmmm, I wear my wife's thongs for fun! We both get a kcik out of it and somethimes I put on her short shorts and run around the house. I think this is not an issue and it is up to the couple. We both enjoy it and it spices things up for us. However, I would never dream of taking this outside the house. You may want to discourage him from doing so, as it might lead to some serious embarassment or other kind of discomfort in the future.
2007-06-20 23:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by immune01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
During intimacy, a good lover will please the other before himself. I am really not an anal sex type of guy, but a previous lover asked for it and it was given to her because she enjoyed it immensely. Your dude really went all out for you, because for me, I just wouldn't be able to cross the line when it comes to cross-dressing, much less barely able to cross it when it came to anal, but hey--everybody has their own unique way of getting their freak on, right? Personally, this is not a turn on for ME, but every guy is different. As far as the cross-dressing being private or public, hey--whatever turns you on the most. Just try to make him look like a woman as much as possible if you go out in public, or be prepared to face the subsequent verbal repercussions.....but then also, it might get you just that much hotter to be seen with an obvious cross-dresser.....and also be prepared to reciprocate any unusual requests that he may ask of you.....and as far as other couples, I'm sure this been done many times before......as long as anything and everything is mutually agreed upon, get your freak on, baby.....
2007-06-20 23:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by toocoolsnoopy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so i dont get it, it's fine for a girl to go out wearing a track suit but when a guy decides to wear something feminine he gets stick for it. so yeah if you're going to explore sexually fine you do that in your own confines because people in this world dont take kindly to this difference are you ready to get harrassed for being a "tranny". Sadly people can be cruel just be prepared to get some funny looks and some comments.
2007-06-20 23:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm...its a mine set, its like making love to a women with a mans tools underneath either u may be bi-sexual or u just have a fetish for cross dressers.
I'm not sure if that is common though. . .but yeah rather confine it to ur home cause not alot of people will understand it.
my personal preference is for a man to be a man, even though of he choose to show off and where a male-thong infront of me I'd find it entertaining
2007-06-20 23:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your bf enjoys wearing women underwear and wants to go out dressed as one then I'm sorry but your bf sounds like a cross dresser!
2007-06-20 23:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bedroom is your sanctuary and you can do in there whatever pleases you .
But going out ?
It depends entirely on you , it might be fun , it might end up with your b/f wanting a sex change !
I say try it and gauge how serious your b/f takes his role as a woman .
If he finds it hysterical then your safe but if he appears to be genuinely concerned about doing it right then I'd be worried .
good luck .
2007-06-20 23:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very weird keep it confined to the bedroom, but I suppose at least your not harming anyone and your both happy so do what you like, u dont need a bunch of weirdo's on the net approval
2007-06-20 23:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋