complicated enough to begin with?And is it even worth it?
2007-06-20 22:56:14 · 18 answers · asked by brad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have often thought the same thing... although being a straight female, I apply the sentiment to men, still undecided as to whether relationships are worth the hassle...
2007-06-20 23:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Delle C. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are relationships complicated? Sometimes, yes. Are they worth it? 6 billion people should be sufficient confirmation. The only question remaining is "is it worth it to you?" If you can see living your life alone, without female companionship, then you should stay single until you change your mind. Women are complex, so any relationship with them is obviously complex. However, complex doesn't mean "impossible", it means that they see things on many levels and see nuances that men often ignore or overlook. They notice the "way" we say things more than "what" we say, so we're terrified to answer some of the questions they pose (especially those we can't win). Add to that the fact that their hormonal cycles require understanding on your part, that you have to cut them some slack at times because if they are angry it might be because of how they feel, not because of something you've done wrong. So, is it complicated? yes. Is it worth it? Yes, and how. When you find a woman who you enjoy being with, who makes your heart flutter when she walks into the same room...well, there's nothing like it in the whole world, and if you let her go without trying to have a relationship with her, then you don't deserve the joy that might come from such a relationship. Your heart will be broken along the way, but nothing good comes easy.
2007-06-28 23:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really every relationship is complicated like what you have said. Getting with a female is also not really complicated to begin as well. It is depend on the female that you are with as well.
2007-06-21 06:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by birdling2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats complicated in saying "hello" to a beautiful woman.
It is worth it if the end result is happiness for 2 people.
2007-06-28 18:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by First CHARLIE 7290 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything made up of glass is easy to be broken but yet we still have them in our homes, so love is complicated as you say but with a kind heart from one party, you can handle it.
2007-06-28 06:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by jackson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Brad life is complicated. if you find the girl for you, you'll know. And you cant be so picky. Girls dont like picky guys. trust me i am a girl and i know these things. And a can keep a guy for a year. Sunday will be our anniversary!
Good luck Brad!
2007-06-28 22:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by â?¥{Amanda*Brooke}â?¥ FurrSurr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, bless. Can I suggest you take a step back and just try being friendly with folk? So many men view women as an enemy who needs to be tricked into talking to them.....
Smile genuinely, tell them they look nice, and witter on regardless. Good luck, petal!
2007-06-28 21:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are b******s simple as that, you men cant handle relationships. Why do you think there are so many lesbians out there!! You run away when times get tough instead of working through them!
2007-06-21 12:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by bluebell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls yes its not worth it so take aback seat and youll find the right girl and then you will realise it was all worth it and even more its just the relationships and mishaps inbetween that make it not worth while so enjoy your life and when the time is right it will hapen
2007-06-21 06:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not complicated. just approach the girl you like and politely introduce yourself. be friends with her and ask her out. if she says no, move on to the next one.
2007-06-21 07:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋