i like this guy, and he likes me. we are best friends and we talk about everything. we talk for hours everyday. and i love being his friend and talking to him. and i want us to be friends forever. but at the same time, i really like him and want to go out with him. i know that would ruin our friendship. im stuck rite in the middle. i dont know what to do. his friend told me he is going to ask me out in a few weeks and im not sure what im going to say. please. any advice would be helpfull!!!!!!!!!! thank you!!!!!
2007-06-20 22:28:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best relationships begin as friendships. Give it a try.
2007-06-20 22:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I remember when I was in high school, and how at the time every decision I made seemed so crucial. Don't take life so seriously...Live a little...It's called dating for a reason. Set your own conditions to the date on how far you want the evening to go. The point on dating is to "test the waters" see if there is anything there worth pursuing, and if not guess what the whole friend thing does not change. Remember keep your wits about you sex is what can ruin a friendship not dating. Any case have fun you sound young, and like I said try to not take things so seriously enjoy.
2007-06-21 05:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you like to go out with him, tell him yes when he asks u out.
It is good when good friends become lovers bcoz they have lot of things in common. You know this person, so now I think you know enough to judge whether or not you are going to go out with him.
Tell him that there is something you have to say, and if he's not the first to break it to you - u be. Tell him that there is this feeling inside of you towards him that you suspect it to be love and tell him the truth - that you are lost in deciding if its love or not. And mayb if the both of you are feeling the same way you two can discover if it is true love afterall.
All the best!
2007-06-21 05:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by the-Z-lander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Megan! Okay I was in the same situation....well sort of. All you have to do, is let him do the talkin. Let him ask you out, and if he does, say YES. Because you like him. But if you ever break up, just say can we just have some space and be friends. If he doesnt agree on that ask him why and yeah if u dont like his answer, he's a butt...lol....but yeah take my advice...trust me if it doesnt work, I'm sorry but I'm pretty sure thats right. Good luck! =]
2007-06-23 02:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by lindsaaaaaaaay ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same dilema. But in the end I had to say yes because I could have been throwing away the most amazing experiance, I'm glad I said yes because it worked for us. We have the most amazing time together because we are not juts husband and wife we are best friends too. I'm not saying your situation will turn out like mine, But if you don't take the chance you will never know,
Good luck with whatever you do xXx
2007-06-21 05:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by tootnuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly u need to ask urself whether this is just because ur just comfortable with him or u really have feeling \s towards him...bcoz there si a difference between love,care and like..then if u think that u can't stop thinking bout him day and nite then better wait for him to make the 1st move..at least u will know for sure that he wants to be more than a friends to you and u feel the same way..good luck..
2007-06-21 05:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay friends and really close long enough, its like a 85% chance you guys will get married LOL. Just try to keep close as much as you can. Nothing is better than a good friendship.
2007-06-21 05:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by liquid_force_evolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like this guy like you said you did and so does he then why worry just let this go on it's own don't rush it. if it's meant to be there really isn't anyting that say no. have faith and this is sure to go somewhere and the relationship will blosom when the time comes. if you don't want to break the friendship then just take it as a casual daily stroll. don't worry. you'll be fine.
2007-06-21 05:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by S.T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best relationships start as friendship, if he asks you to go out just say yes, watch and see where the relationship is heading. give it time he will come around
2007-06-22 11:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by lilac is beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want to go out with the guy. Its good that you are already friends. What would you like more, friends or relationship?
2007-06-21 05:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by OTEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋