he broke up with me couple months ago. I can't stop thinking about him. I just want to know what he's doing? who he hanging out with? y he won't talk to me in person or hang out with me. thanks.
2007-06-20 21:52:17 · 30 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does he regret his action of leaving me? does he care about me?
2007-06-26 21:30:02 · update #1
does he still care about me like if I try and do something or get hurt will he come help me?
2007-06-28 10:50:57 · update #2
Princess, early last fall I was dumped too and it is the pits. Believe me, if he will not talk to you he is not interested. However, you will get over him and then you will wonder what you ever saw in him.
2007-06-28 10:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When someone rejects you it is normal to want some part of them to want you in some way so as to ease the horrible feeling of not being wanted anymore.
You two have broken up now, it's time to move on and it seems like he would prefer not to be friends with you at this point.
Give it a bit of time and he may feel ready to talk to you again once all the old feelings have settled and he hasn't thought about it for a while. This is the stuff fresh starts are made of! Until then sit tight darl everything will work out the way it is supposed to :)
2007-06-20 21:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Over protective means something completely different then where your feeling...
You're feeling rejection, hurt. It's normal. We all go through it.
You now need to accept the fact he doesn't want to be with you and thats ok.
He doesn't want to hang out or talk, because he moved on. You're his ex now.
Chasing after him you’re adding more hurt to your pain. Stop, you’re prolonging the healing process and you don’t want that. The sooner you get over him the better off you will be.
You were okay before him and you'll be fine after him.
2007-06-20 22:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i have some news for you he broke up with you for a reason maybe he wasnt feeling you anymore i mean you just need to learn how to accept it... if he cared or if he was thinking about you then he would try to talk to you or something.. sorry to tell you but ur his ex he totally exted you out girl just move theirs a lot of guys out there that do want to be with you and i dont think ur over reacting its normal to wonder about the other person hes not worth it i mean if he doesnt even want to say hi hes just a total idiot! well good luck and try to move on keep ur head up =)
2007-06-28 19:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have an email or messanger? maybe he doesn't feel confortable being around you because you are so into him. if he won't talk to you in person, why not try some other way? even calling can work. he probly doesn't have your phone number memorized so when he picks up the phone, he MUST answer it.
if it doesn't work with HIM, try finding something else to occupy your mind, such as a hobby, friends, exercise, and ways that are healthful and enjoyable to your body such as massages, pedicures, lotion, makeup, etc.
good luck!
2007-06-20 21:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by punkplayerpinoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, STOP! Whatever you are thinking....if good news is bad news then the good news is you haven't heard from him~ "you can't make somebody Love you" and Please, My Sister, move on. Grab a dictionary, look up "Love". Good, now look up "Obsession". Now keep that book next to you. Sounds like you need someone to tell ya straight. Dictionaries come right out with the truth you need. It works! And ps, I just know he felt insecure around a young woman of your charms, yes. Relax~look up "happy"! Go! 8D)
2007-06-28 20:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only are you crossing a line into stalkerville, you are sabotaging potential boyfriends with your creepy behavior. Who would dare to involve himself with the likes of you?
Seriously, most of us have all been there and it is not a pleasant place. And we have relied on friends to pull us through--I've personally wrestled a pair of binoculars out of the hands of my best bud in college as she was spying on her ex and his new beau leaving his apartment. We laugh now, but it was really ugly then!
2007-06-28 16:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by wildatheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll run into him again someday. In the time you have before then you should be more focused in making yourself better. So that when the day comes to where you two meet again he will sorely regret his decision to leave you.
2007-06-20 22:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mista R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little obsessed honey. I think you need some counseling to figure out why you are feeling as though this guy it the only thing that matters.
2007-06-28 21:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being a stalker!!!Get a life and leave him be before he presses charges against u!!He won't come if u hurt yourself..sorry....men don't feel the way women do!
2007-06-28 18:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mel A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋