At the beginning of our relationship (we're going on 4 months now) my girlfriend mentioned to me that one of her ex-boyfriends had a huge penis (she claimed it was 9 or 10 inches and very thick). I thought nothing of it because I have never been insecure about my size, however, we were recently watching a porno together, and she vocalized how much she liked the male actors penis. ("Wow, it's huge" "Yummy" etc.) I brought it up to her and she claims she's completely happy with my size. Should I believe her, or is she just saying that because she likes everything else about me? Please no cliche answers like, "its not the size of the boat, its the motion of the ocean" I just want to know what you think about her making such a big about the porno given her ex boyfriends size. Do you think she desires a larger penis? Thank you.
2007-06-20 21:35:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Size is not a big matter, the most important is girl get to use it. Even you get a flag staff size but no girl use, it better to dump it.
2007-06-22 12:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-21 18:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Madalene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can add is, if she's not happy or satisfied with you...it's NOT you..it's because she's too stretched out from use. I personally wouldn't want a man with a larger than norm., and there's plenty of women out there that would accept you for you and not what you had or didn't have. I'm appalled that she would even tell you about her former at any time during your relationship, but only four months into it? That would bother me more than whether she was satisfied with your size or not. What is she going to tell the next guy about you? Is she a gurl or a woman? Women don't discuss former lovers.
2007-06-20 21:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok you want the truth ,first ask your self can you handle the truth if you cant then you should not ask the question ! so sence you asked he it goes . you allready said it she stated while watching the porn that it made her excited ok there it is but i found that woman like all sizes yes she might like that 10 incher until she had it then it will come out to its all about the man. now here is a question why where you watchen porn because its exciting and to some times look at some thing a little diferant then what you have is more exciting . for instance did you notice if she orgasmed faster watchen . eather way it shouldent mater where they get there apitite from aslong as they eat at home. porn can be fun but if ur not secure in your relationship it can destoy it to and just remember 2 things love is not suppose to hurt and jelousy is a wast of emotion. peace and be safe
2007-06-20 21:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by hthammond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, but either way she's not being very considerate of your feelings. Since you two are obviously into spicing things up go buy her a big toy. Make sure you either go first, or only use the toy. I think you will either figure out your answer, or you will find some new "activities" that will satisfy both of you.
Some women are really into big penises. If they are more vaginally stimulated they might need something a little bigger to really enjoy themselves. On the other hand, if a woman responds better to clitoral stimulation it really doesn't matter how big the guy is. Different positions can give you different results too. Some positions allow for deeper penetration, maybe just playing around with some new positions might enhance things for her, if she is not getting what she wants.
I know it is awkward to discuss these things, but if you really want to have good sex and you want to make sure she is having good sex, you need to throw caution to the wind and talk to her about it. There are usually a few things a woman wishes her man would do to make it better for her, but it is hard to tell a guy what to do without hurting his feelings or his pride. It is in your best interest though to learn what will satisfy her, and don't take anything personally. All women are different so you will likely have to figure this out each time you get involved with someone new. Make it easier on her by asking her what you can do to make it more enjoyable, then she can ask for things without it seeming critical of your performance or size.
Another trick to finding out what really gets her off, ask her to masturbate with you. Pay attention to what she does to herself. If she doesn't know how to get herself off, you aren't probably going to have much luck either, so don't worry too much about it. The point is, as long as you are making sure she "enjoys" herself, penis size shouldn't be a big deal. If you look at "toys" they come in a variety of sizes for a reason. It doesn't hurt to have a couple of differently sized toys around to change things up on occassion.
More info than you probably wanted but I tried to steer clear of the cliches.
Thought of a couple other things. Big is not always better. When it comes to BJ's I'd rather smaller. Big can sometimes be painful and uncomfortable if the woman is too small for it. I had a friend who used to complain that her bf was too big. She was a little tiny thing and he was a pretty big guy. I guess it caused some problems for them. He never got to "go deep" and she was always too uncomfortable to enjoy herself completely. Anyway- Just be happy with what you got, and if she's not, trade her in for a woman with a little more class. A lady would never put her man in such an awkward insecure situation. Good luck!
2007-06-20 21:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by sage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may like a large penis, but she can also be satisfied with yours. This is possible. Being satisfied means she is happy with what she is getting from you. Her expressing that she enjoyed the sight of a large penis means she would mind a large one, doesn't mean your is not good enough. If you are worried about it then ask her in a serious manner and then just believe what she tells you, or you good begin to take penis enlarging pills. Some of those do work.
2007-06-20 21:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The answer might be both. She may be satisfied by your penis size AND get excited about bigger penises. She may be visually stimulated more than physically. The thing is, you will never belive anything except her telling you that she wants a bigger dick so stop asking, you will only make yourself nuts. She can reassure you forever but your confidence is shaken. Just keep helping her get her rocks off and dont worry about it. As long as she is happy with the sex she isnt going to care. Take back your sanity!!!
2007-06-20 21:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be satisfied with your size...She may just be visually stimulated by the much larger size. It's like comparing a Ferrarri to a Ford Focus. Yeah the Ferrarri looks better but the Focus is getting her where she needs to go. Take her to get some sex toys, see what she picks out.
2007-06-20 21:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by MrAnonyMuss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldn't worry about it as she may like the look of the big penis but she knows that would probably hurt a lot if he tried to have sex with her and he wasn't very very slow and very very careful! Just like some guys like big boobs or bums but there is a point where it can look saggy or feel unreal (no offence Jordan lol) it is what happens in bed that counts. Honestly.
2007-06-20 21:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Karlalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there's really nothing you can do about it if she IS into bigger schlongs. If I were you, I'd hedge my bets; that is to say, I wouldn't get all worked up about it, but I'd realize that she may eventually go searching for somebody with something closer to a gorilla than a human's size. Just enjoy the ride while it lasts...
2007-06-20 21:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, she loves em big. She really enjoys large penises, and nothing gets her going better than a really well hung man.
Now, however, you may satisfy her and get her off. She probably enjoys sex with you quite well, but, she'd enjoy it MORE if you were large.
My ex loved 'em large, and I'm only top end average. So, for her, I'd use toys, extra fingers, whatever else to stretch her good, and work her over to the best of my ability. Then, when she was sore, I'd rail her for another hour or two.
That way she really got pounded like a champ, and it was like having two men in the same night-when she couldn't handle the big one anymore, I was able to do the job well also.
She came with me, without toys either way, but, she enjoyed larger and I provided it for her. Now, can you do the same for her, or will it hurt your self esteem too much to be able to pull though like a champ?
2007-06-20 21:37:22 · answer #11 · answered by MoreFoolishThanWise 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋