Hi...this my question what wud u think about two guys competing for a girl....One guy raps to her,dedicates his myspace page to her,and claims her when there not even going out.....is this guy pushing it too much???
And the other guy just talks to her as a friend,writes poems,dosent dedicated his page to her....but keeps waiting patiently for the gurl.lol im this guy.
2007-06-20 21:20:49 · 21 answers · asked by We tha Best 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who doing better me or the other guy?
2007-06-20 21:23:48 · update #1
Ok i forgot this i already to her i like her...or more than than i loved her. =)
But im giving it time....patience.
2007-06-20 21:28:32 · update #2
Well thanks! I guess im doing it the right way....i was started to think the other guy was gonna get her.....anyways i told her how i felt already..and thats y im patient.
Thanks and i still wud love to hear more thoughts
2007-06-20 22:10:47 · update #3
the second one he is not making you his possesion he is just trying the old fashioned way to catch you, were as the first one is a bit overboard, advertising that you are his but as you said you arent even dating , image how he will be when you are, scary, rather stick with no 2 sorry read the question wrong , but i will still stick with no 2 as i won't date a guy that claims that i am his but no 2 is more romantic and more realistc
2007-06-20 21:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all gurls have some kind of sixth sense or a seventh sense (lol) u guys lack.so trust her feelings for u or the other guy. gurls may like abit of sort of a commanding or pushing guy but A SINCERE TRUE HOT TRUSTFULL HEARTILY LOVE along with a pinch of show of power and wisdome and being in charge from the guy can help her decide. but above all: dont act out . Be urself and wait. u seem 2 b a wonderfull nice guy . wish u lots of luck and happiness.if she is ur mach ,her heart will b urs 4 ever and always.
2007-06-20 21:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by angelfacenaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that you like this girl for who she is and not just looks etc then tell her in a roundabout way by complimenting her sincerely and telling her that you are not sure about the other guy being right for her. If you are already friends she should listen and get the idea that you like her and also care about her. Personally I hate chauvinistic pigs who try to claim me like property by bragging to friends on stuff on the web, but romantic gestures like poems are waaay cuter! Good luck!
2007-06-20 21:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Karlalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and be a bit more like the other guy. A girl likes it if you give atten tion to her but not too much! Try and do something sweet for her from time to time n u can't just wait for her to notice u! Ask her on a date or something.
The other guy is kind of pushing it. That's not just love that's obssesion!
2007-06-20 21:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kokoryu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You win, hands down. The other guy is, well, stalker much? He is pushing too hard, has even crossed the line by saying she's his when she isn't (and by even saying she is *his*; sorry feminist nit-pick). The best guys to date are the ones that respect a woman and are sweet.. but not too sweet - don't let her slip through your fingers b/c she had no idea you were interested! Good luck!
2007-06-20 21:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by freakyanomaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like a guy assuming I'm his and believe me I'm mischievous enough to set him straight in the most...inventive way possible.
but even though the other guy (u) seem more laid back, which is good, u'd bore me. u waiting making no effort to pursue me. its good to have patients but a little push and shove can be a good thing too.
the balance between these two guys would be a good match (u standing the better ground, if u learn to pursue a bit more)...(",)
2007-06-20 21:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would prefer the guy who is patiently waiting. It seems as though the other guy is just doing it for a challenge and will dump me soon after he gets me, however the man who is patiently waiting is the one who seems to truly love me.
2007-06-20 21:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleigh L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. I'd go for guy number 3 (somewhere inbetween pushy guy number one and passive I'm almost not here guy number 2). Does she even know you like her?? If you talk to her like a friend, I'm sorry to say, you're probably just a friend to her. You need to be more aggressive
2007-06-20 21:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guy is pushing it way to much and I wouldn't like it if Someone "claimed" me without even knowing. and you are doing good, but I guess you could flirt a little. ^_^
Oh yah try giving her flowers!
2007-06-20 21:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by ~Balla Babe~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it would flatter me if a guy dedicated his myspace page to me and everything. but, i much rather have a decent guy who's just himself and who is patient. plus, i love poetry. but, all girls are different.....
2007-06-20 21:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋