so thers this girl who i like buhh iono if she knows that i like her. i told her "i dunno what to do about this girl i like(her)." n she was tryin to help me out n all lyk she was sayin juss to tell her now before its too late. n i wanna tell her sooooo bad but there are some stuff keepin me from doing that:
1. We never had a chance to talk in person.
2. she went through some rough relationships.
3.she said that shes juss gon stay single and focus on school.
what do i do now?!?!
i respect her choice of juss stayin single and focusing on school. do i juss tell her that i like her n if she lyks me back that we dont need to go out if she juss wants to focus on school and stay single?
2007-06-20 19:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by Adrian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay hint her on by talking to her again by saying "you know the girl i like? well she just wants to be single and focus on school, what should i do? and then ask her what she would do.
2007-06-20 19:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you like her. What's the worst that could happen? You don't get the girl? Well you don't have her now, so you have nothing to lose. If she doesn't want to date you, she will probably politely decline, be very flattered, and slightly uncomfortable around you for awhile. If she says no just drop it, and things will be fine if she is really your friend. Might be some discomfort at first, but it will pass.
Besides girls say all the time that they are done dating, that's usually when they fall in love.
2007-06-21 02:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by sage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a difficult choice.. but i can tell u really like this girl so if i were you, i would tell her that u understand that school is really important and the fact that some guys are jerks, but i want to let u know that i really like you, and i was wondering if u wanted to do something sometime... also let her know that u guys can always take things slow and work things out as u go along. Also, u might wanna find out if she has a thing for u .. try to get her to kinda open up to u... get to know her, and talk to her a bit first, so that she knows that u know her whole situation. Good luck and i hope things work out
2007-06-21 02:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by david edwards 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by telling her you thought about what she said, and she's right, you just need to tell this girl how you feel. Then proceed to tell her that you know how tough she's had it this year, and you know what her plans are, but you have to get this off your chest. Tell her you like her, and you don't expect a serious relationship, and you by no means want to distract her from school, but that you like her, and want to take her out. Tell her you can take it as slow or as fast as she wants, you just wanna be with her. It's not enough to say all this though, you have to mean it, and if you don't, well, then wait a while, until you do, or until the feeling passes and you can move on to someone else.
2007-06-21 02:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to like my answer because it is not what you want to hear.
Telling you she is just going to stay single and focus on school is a nice way of letting you down gently. However, she is not interested and when a guy she is interested in comes along her focus on school will not amount to a hill of beans.
2007-06-28 17:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! I CANT READ WHAT YOU WROTE!!!!!!!!! use proper english! juss and just are the same amount of letters so spell it like the rest of society does!
just tell her... who gives a ****
2007-06-21 02:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by yemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to lose her as a friend then go right ahead and tell her how you feel but if you do be prepared to losing her all together.Let it go she isn't interested in you as a boyfriend.
2007-06-21 02:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a not telling her how u feel maybe? either that or u can just talk to her in prvate like ask her if u could tlak to her alone maybe that would work
2007-06-21 02:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a good person. just stay around and be her friend...so when she is in need you'll answer her call...
i really wish you the best of luck
peace
2007-06-29 00:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Jezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this English? Learn to spell and then ask your question.
2007-06-28 21:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋