INTERESTING QUESTION.
I rarely meet women who think CLEARLY ahead. . . . and FAR ENOUGH ahead to stop and think about what they are doing TODAY . . . . and how it affects TOMORROW.
I tip my hat to you.
What I am about to tell you is absolutely TRUE. No BS> Not even an exaggeration.
I was a late bloomer. When I was 21 I still looked 17. And the girls I was interested in, I could never GET at the time.
There were 3 guys that I can think who I admired when I was younger . . . not just because they were "LADIES men" . . . but because they were whats known as a "mans man". The type of guys who other GUYS wanted to BE LIKE.
One of them actually looked EXACTLY like Superman. We CALLED him that. They got all the girls. No problem. PLENTY of girls. They rode motorbikes . . . partied and socialized . . . got drunk and high all the time . . . went to clubs every weekend . . . they seemed to have their pick of women wherever they went . . . and the women I knew all had a "strange attraction" for them.
I admired them. Plain and simple.
And guess what. They are all DEAD. All 3 of these guys didn't even have a 35th birthday.
- One was killed on his Motorbike in New York.
- One committed suicide by throwing himself off a bridge in France.
- And the other died of Heart failure in his sleep.
I guess it's really true-->> "the candle that burns twice as bright burns half as long".
While this may sound like an extreme example . . . I can also think of a couple of handfuls of others who are not doing so well these days . . . . while my life couldn't be any better.
The prom queen will NOT be the prom queen any more when she is 35. Why? Because she didnt have to TRY and be the Prom Queen when she was younger. She just WAS. And the "hottest" girls I knew when growing up, are totally different than what they were like when they were younger.
Its usually the ugliest duckling who becomes the most beautful swan.
I also went to school with a girl who used to cry whenever she got 97% or less on an exam. Very nerdy. Neurotic. Boys were not interested . . . and now she made million$ and has her OWN SHOW in Vegas. She has a fan base of men who fly from all over the world to see her. If you would have told me that about what her life would be like after high school . . . NOONE would have believed it. IMPOSSIBLE.
There are so many examples of this out there, it's almost scary.
If things come too naturally for people, they dont' have to WORK to IMPROVE themselves, and before they know it . . . well . . . i dont really need to finish this sentence.
:)
2007-06-20 19:20:18
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answered by Anonymous
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The really cute guys and gals get older. Look at your parents and their friends. Imagine, if you can, what they might have looked like when they were your age. Look at some of their pictures taken when they were your age or perhaps a bit older. This will give you an idea of what to expect. But let me share a secret. As you age you find other features are more important than just a great face or figure. Personality, attitude, compassion, all these things and more become far more important than movie-star looks. Looks may draw you across the street to get an introduction but you won't continue talking unless there is more to the person than a pretty face. It's just that when you're older you may not even be interested in crossing the street.
2007-06-20 18:56:11
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answered by judgebill 7
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The cute guy that everyone wanted from my youth is now married to the girl that he went steady with from the 6th grade on so they've been together 40 years all total. He's a nice looking man, but lots bigger.
2007-06-20 18:57:41
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answered by sharpeilvr 6
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(1952) making a music interior the Rain starring: Gene Kelly this is awesomely stable in this action picture. Storyline In 1927, Don Lockwood and Lina Lamont are a popular on-exhibit romantic pair. Lina, although, errors the on-exhibit romance for genuine love. Don has labored stressful to get the place he's at the instant, along with his former better half Cosmo. whilst Don and Lina's recent action picture is switched over right into a musical, Don has the appropriate voice for the songs. yet Lina - nicely, inspite of the appropriate efforts of a diction coach, they nonetheless decide to dub over her voice. Kathy Selden is introduced in, an aspiring actress, and collectively as she is working on the action picture, Don falls in love along with her. Will Kathy proceed to "aspire", or will she get the destroy she merits ?
2016-11-07 02:34:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Well the cool guy in my graduating class (the one who's parents bought him a new car for his 16th bday and one for graduation, always threw the big beer parties) ended up getting booted out of school, losing his scholarships all over a drug habit and drinking problem. His parents pretty much disowned him. Eight years later he was last seen partying with juniors and seniors who are currently in high school (who else would buy them the beer).
Loser...
2007-06-20 18:58:38
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answered by Patrick E 6
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Well, I'm 48, so I guess I fit in this category..... lol. One girl I dated in high school, is a very attractive woman. She and I actually stay in touch with each other. She was married and was in an abusive relationship, so she ended up divorced. She is very happy now and is a software engineer at Rockwell Automation
2007-06-20 18:57:57
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answered by Anonymous
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I used to be a popular jock in high school. Now, in college and working, I get all the soccer moms hitting on me and the girls my age get jealous. Still the same guy, just a different environment.
2007-06-20 18:57:34
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answered by Hitch™ 3
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She now weighs herself on the truck scale at the local Travel America Plaza.
2007-06-20 18:55:10
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answered by Anonymous
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im not old i'll be 16 next month but something that makes sense is to look at their parents and grandparents because they get their genes from their parents so they will likely have similar features. for example someone that looks good now could go fat later.
2007-06-20 18:55:04
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answered by giarc 3
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Graduated in 1979 and is a math teacher with a couple of grown kids.
2007-06-20 18:54:36
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answered by starrynight1 7
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