and I don't know what to do. We were on a trip together two weeks ago and were "together" but... he never made a move. though it was very obvious he was interested. We all went our separate ways after the trip, and I haven't seen him/ talked to him since. I still really like him, and I feel bad that we haven't talked in a while, and I feel like this might be awkward. My friend is having a reunion on Friday and I'm going to see him. The problem is, he is sooo shy around me. and this other kid who willbe there likes me and is very forward, though he knows i'm not into him. I want the boy (that I like/ that likes me) to finally make a move/get the hint that I'm interested. We live in diff states and go to diff schools, but I'd still be interested in being friends/more than friends. I jsut don't know how I should act on Friday, especially since it's probably gonna be my last time seeing him for a long time. Its also likely my last chance for somethign to happen. What do i do? help!
2007-06-20 18:39:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he has been on your mind since the day you saw him last in a general conversation and make it seem like it was nothing.
2007-06-20 18:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sweetie this will not be your last chance for anything in life. Him being shy at his age is normal, because you might be the first girl he actually liked or hung out with, a boy his age( younger than 15 I think he might be) is very shy, especially around girls and more shy around girls they like. They are afraid of rejection, if he made a move that day and you said no to him could have made him very upset, so instead he kept quit. If you still talk to him on msn or on the phone, tell him how you felt about him, and maybe this Friday you two could do more than just “hanging out”. Try not to get too serious, because you seem very young and he lives in another state, long distant relationships never work if you can’t get to each other.
2007-06-20 18:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do something so that you wont have any regrets. the decision in in your hands. i would ask him out especially if your never gunna see him again because you dont want regrets. good luck!
p.s. it was funny cuz when i first started reading it it sounded the same cuz i met this girl two weeks ago and im planning to hang out with her on friday. i hope its you but since its a reunion i guess not. haha
2007-06-20 18:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by giarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is just be yourself. we girls, likes being around to someone we really like, however, we must ourselves. in the first place, if that boy still likes you, i doubt it, if he's not making any move to have even a short conversation to you when u see him. on the other hand, if you really like him, why dont u try to approach him and break the wall between the two of you. there's nothing wrong of making a first move just to converse to him.
2007-06-20 18:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by trix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so shy probably he wont make the first move,so, you have to convey the message to him before its too late.Either send a message through a common friend or have the guts to talk frankly.
2007-06-20 18:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships rarely work. Just enjoy the time that you have with him. Don't get emotionally involved, or your heart will be broken.
2007-06-20 18:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋