i said yes and then he wasnt calling me i would have to be the one calling him or he wouldnt call me ..so when i called him again 3 days later in our relationsip..i tolled him why he wasnt calling me he said he wasnt ganna go out of the way for me and he had to worry about summer school and his family and that he was to busy to call..then he was like mabey we should be friends for a minute..so we left it at being friends...but i dont get why he startted calling me again and asked me out if he was just going to break up with me like 3days later...???....iam scared hes ganna end up calling me again...!!!..what does this mean....!!!
2007-06-20 18:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that the boyfriend was tired of the relationship, but had a sudden reality check that you were there and available for him, so he asked you back out. Now that he's done that he feels like he has all the power and control. I say forget this loser and find someone who has time for you and wants to be with you. When he calls again, and I'm sure he will, especially if you are dating someone else, just tell him you don't have time to talk, and won't have anytime in the foreseeable future.
2007-06-20 18:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want to hurt you with being so busy so he wanted to break up of the moment and then 3 days later missed you so much he wanted you back but you called and he felt like he was hurting you by not calling so he did it again he may do it again but just tihnk of his lfe and say i love you (if you do)but i know what you are going tho so i will wait and see what that does.hope it helps.
2007-06-20 18:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by insanerockprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reality is... he doesnt necessarly want to go out with you, not saying that he doesnt like you. but he also wouldnt want to see you with anybody else... so its sort of like he wants to keep you on the side while he does his own thing and will let you go when he thinks that you two would create a problem. i'm sorry sweetie but he's not worth it if he's going to play these games... you're life is just as hectic as his, and you probably dont have time to be strung around for nothing.
2007-06-20 18:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he needed a piece of a##. Obviously he is a jerk. If he does not have time to call you, then he should not be calling you his gf.
Tell him to get lost, and find a nice guy that will treat you nice and respect you and your feelings.
You deserve better than that, after 4 years!!!!!
2007-06-20 18:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to be your bf but doesnt have time for you. he is busy but you dont seem very important to him especially if hes doing things like asking you out 3 days after the breakup. if possible find someone else.
2007-06-20 18:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by giarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you. But he has other things to be doing. he needs his time. give it to him. be freinds awhile. if he asks say yes/no and explain your reasons for either way. make him understand how you feel. talk a bit and hang out a bit but dont crowd him. thats not what he wants.
Hope this helps.
2007-06-20 18:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smarter then that. No. He just had a fling with someone he thought he really liked, it didn't work out so now he's coming back to you.
2007-06-20 18:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means there is a cute girl in summer school and he's keeping his options open
When he is at his "family's" house, he's really with her
2007-06-20 18:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by cop350zx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that he has problems.
he wants you back, when he doesnt have you.
and when he has you, he doesnt care.
it also means that you should run FAR FAR away.
youre better than that!
2007-06-20 18:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋