I like this boy who is 2 years older than me. He is going to high school this year, and I won't see him for another like...900 days! I don't really know him, and he has no idea who I am...I'm really sad, but I don't know if I should wait for 900 days or if I should just move on! I know the right thing to do is to move on, but somehow, I don't think I can! I am also wondering if I even like this older boy because I started to like him after I heard he had a band. Of course I still think he is the cutest boy on Earth, but what if I only like him because I know he has a band? Please help me decide if he is worth my while! Thanks! <3 <3
2007-06-20 17:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by bazackodogs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm int he 7th thank you very much! So I'm NOT REALLY young!
2007-06-20 18:10:51 · update #1
Thank You everyone for helping me! I really appretiate everything you have all said. Unfortuetly, I can only pick one of you...*sniffle*
2007-06-28 08:52:44 · update #2
Assuming you really want advice and not just someone to say what you want to hear...this is my advice: concentrate on relationships that are close to you, in your school. You are in the 7th grade, and although you probably feel like you "must" have a boyfriend, the reality is that the demands of boyfriend/girlfriend relationships will distract you more than help you. You "do" need to experience relationships, but you also need to know that they will "not" be lifelong at this point in your life. I know you feel that you have Best Friends Forever, but I can guarantee that four years from now you probably won't even talk to these BFFs anymore, if they are even still living in your same town. As far as "anyone", boys or girls, being "worth your while", the answer is probably "no", because what many girls, and boys, your age fail to really appreciate is that if you spent half the time improving yourself (taking care of your health, appearance, physical shape, intelligence, poise, etc.) as you do trying to find someone who likes you, but doesn't make uncomfortable demands on you, you'd end up being the kind of girl that "any" boy would want to take home to meet his mother. Trust me, aim for being the most desirable 21 year old woman you can be, not the easiest 7th grader on the market...you'll thank me when you're 21, guaranteed.
2007-06-28 16:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well im going into 8th grade. and yeah i hate it when people are like ohh young love. okay so he is in highschool. and a band. which definitely means his band performs. but im betting at highschool parties. but if you have highschool friends let them know you are interested and they can get you invited to these parties. then when you are there, be the girl at the front of the stage dancing in front of the band and showing them you're hott lol. then when they stop playing go right on up to the guy you like and be liek "yall were awesome" then start talking. you really have to put yourself outthere for an older guy. and prove to him you are mature and not a little seventh grader that he thinks of.
GOOD LUCKK
2007-06-29 00:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have hope, you should defiently at least wait a couple more weeks to see what your heart really tells you. DO you like this boy or is he just a plain vivid image in your head. To be happy give up all desires. The right answer is to move on but you listen to your heart.
2007-06-21 16:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really like him or is it that he plays in a band .if you don't really like him just move on you may not completely for get about him but you need to think about other things beside him or you wont be able to move on ,you are just starting out you will see about a thousand cute boys that you will want to date .you have plenty of time you don't have to rush
2007-06-28 23:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The idea of him having a band sounded exciting to you and made you think you like him. That's normal. But if you find someone closer to your age it will have a better chance of working.
2007-06-28 01:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal reasoning on this problem , i've run across it in personal experience is that if you like him that much wait and see what happens. Let him know you like him if you can in a way that doesn't scare him. I have always decided to wait for what i want rather than kill that beautiful thing called love
2007-06-29 00:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it but you have no chance now that he is in high school. two years is not much when you're both in high school but a normal high school guy will not mess with a middle school. that is just the way it is. not when there are hundreds of developed high school girls within reach.
an 11th grade guy will date a 9th grade girl. but a 9th grade guy will never date a 7th grade girl. that is just the way it is.
sorry i had to break it to. just wait til you get in high school
2007-06-28 01:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is meant to be, you'll see him again. If you don't you do have the strength to move on. There will be many cutest boys on Earth in your future. ;)
2007-06-28 22:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by southerngifts4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move, hes not worth the wait an when you get into hs maybe it will happen.
2007-06-21 01:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound REALLY young. how do you know you can't move on? you havent met half the boys that you could yet? there will be better. trust me.
2007-06-21 01:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by ayebaybay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋