I REALLY REALLY LOVE this girl and i think she is the one but i'm not sure if she feels the same, she has given me signs but i just don't have enough balls
2007-06-20 17:49:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well for starters stop being a baby...if you really LOVE this gurl then i think that you should take a shot...you wouldn't want sum one else to take her 4rm you would you now? so i think that you should find out sum of the things that she like or whateva and invite her....and maybe sometimes when you try too hard it's easier then you thought it would be. basically be opened minded with her. hold a conversation w/her don't go to hard but don't be too soft. jus dew enough jus so that she notice that u r interested in her. Let me kno how it turns out...if you want to you can msg me on yahoo or you could msg me on myspace @ www.myspace.com/mrs_bugs Thanks!
2007-06-20 17:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by ~*BuGs*BuNnY*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude- if you really really like her, she has gotta know it. If you spend a lot of time with her and you too are really close just act on an impulse. Dont tell her that you "like her": show her. Actions speak louder than words- so next time you see her open the door for her, give her a look. She'll know and if she starts acting different to you- going out of her way to see you. You know she is interested back. Then just go from there. Be confident and strong, and if you get rejected who the f cares. You had the balls to do something really impressive so kudos to you.
Good luck
2007-06-21 00:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Derek R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab your balls really hard to the point of crushing them and say: "I am a man! If she rejects me, so fuucking be it! This may be the only chance I get and if I'm a puussy and don't take it, I may never have the chance again. I will never know how it could've turned out, how she could've said yes and how we could've prospered together..."
Go up to her and ask to speak in private.
Even if she does say no, it's not the end of the world. There are many other girls out there.
2007-06-21 00:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have flirted with her and vice versa and you are feeling it, then go right up there and ask her out. What is the worst that can happen? She says no? You just look at it this way. You didn't have her then and you don't have her now. What did you really lose?
When you ask her out, approach her like you are a man who knows what he wants and with confidence. Keep a good poker face and don't ast insecure. The ladies can smell fear a mile away.
2007-06-21 00:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I know its really hard the first time believe me I know. You just have to go up to her, look her straight in the eyes and say "Do you want to go out some time?" and I garuntee you she will say yes if you do it honestly, and without coming across as being to self centered. When she says yes, say "Okay great. Could I get your phone number?" And have a pen and paper ready. Call her the day after (That night would be to soon) and just try to talk with her for a bit. When your about to say bye, make arrangements for going to see a movie ( this is always the easiest place to go )
I hope this helps and good luck dude I hope shes the one
++ dont listen to all these noobs calling you a baby.
2007-06-21 00:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
BOY if a girl give you some signs of she likes you go for it go up to her and ask her if she want to go to dinner on a saturday night but if she is working on that day ask her what day is good for her then when the day comes dress up sharp and buy her some roses and chocolates and get some shampane and set the mood well good luck and dont be afraind and if i hear that you didnt go for it i am going to help you some more
2007-06-21 00:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by mars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look, you just have to go and do it, if not ull just kick yourself for not doing it and it will get worse next time you want to ask a girl out. Now, if you say you think she likes you then thats even better, shes probably shy about asking you out as well. So just go for it, stop thinking about it and do it. U will feel sooo much better afterwards.
2007-06-21 00:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't do it in a text message do it in person it shows that you really do like her and thinks she's special. You should really ask her out though because you only live once, and if she says no then you can finally move on.
2007-06-21 00:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by ktbear067 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's giving u signs, it obviously means that she likes you for you, so even if you're shaky and rough when u ask her out, she still knows you mean it from the heart.
2007-06-21 00:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time, get to know her better, make sure she is reallllllllyyyyyy the ONE. and when you finally feel comfortable, just make it seem kinda casual, like "hey wanna go hang out sometimes" then after a couple those, make it kinda formal
~just a thought~
2007-06-21 00:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by justin w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋