My b/f and I have been in a relationship for 8 1/2 months....he hasnt called or came to see me in a week, he has no reason to be mad at me.......is it over or what? What should I do if he comes back?!?!?!?! I've talked to him before about doing this.....but he has done it again....and we've talked about the cheating thing..he says he could never do that to me.........PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!
2007-06-20 15:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by blondie4real101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant call him...he doesnt have a home phone and he left his SIM card to his cell phone with me.
2007-06-20 16:17:47 · update #1
first, take a deep breath. If youve made it 8 1/2 months then probably he just needs some alone time. Most guys arent as impossible as they seem, they just need time to do "guy things" which doesnt always mean cheating. When he does call ... be hurt, not mad. Mad will only piss him off or make him jump to conclusions. Tell him your hurt that he cant communicate with you and if hes positive about it, keep with it. If he gets defensive or makes it your problem, hate to say it honey then your better off with some one else. Just be cool-
2007-06-20 15:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kalerz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has done it before, and is now doing it again its not a good sign. He has issues with something, maybe not even you, maybe just himself. If I were you I would call things off with him or at least take a break from the relationship to see where things will go from there. It seems like you two are lacking communication. When you see him again, let him know you are angry, but try to talk more. Find out where thins problem is coming from, and what is causing it.
2007-06-20 22:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you or he is. If he is young (under 20), he may be just busy doing something else right now. It doesn't sound as if he is interested in having a really serious relationship with you or anyone else at this point. If he is older though, if I were you I would call him and ask him. Don't make accusations...just ask him what he has been up to for the past week. His answer should let you know what he is thinking.
2007-06-20 22:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. But don't call him for the reason of asking him why ant you talking to me. Pretend to call him to ask him a question, a really important question so it doesn't seem obvious that you are calling him because you think he's avoiding you.
Say hey did you know that we were robbed. And he would say oh my gosh are you OK and then you say ya but I'm just kidding but you fell for it then you both may start laughing and then you say ha ha i miss your laugh and he'll say ya I've just............. or it's just.........................
2007-06-20 22:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by michelle c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to wait for him to call you...why can't you call him ?? Doesn't sound like he is too into you though...why would he not be calling you ? Don't sit around waiting any longer...call him and if he can't be straight with you...stop wasting your time...and find some-one who does want to be with you.
2007-06-20 22:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by DyShaNic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's over. if you've talked about him doing this before and he keeps doing it, he's really not that in to you.
move on. this isn't the last guy on the planet. you shouldn't have to settle for someone who treats you like an afterthought.
2007-06-20 22:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by t g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know what his problem is but I would be so mad.He is being a jerk,I would have a serious talk with him.He is so inconsiderate.
2007-06-20 22:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space , if he does not call you in 8 months ,consider it officially over.
2007-06-20 22:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could he be just busy? or has things on his mind. you never know with guys.
2007-06-20 22:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by diamond a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its over
2007-06-20 22:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋