When a man sees a gorgeous woman, he looks, right? The less that she has on, he looks even harder. If thier wife or girlfriend, put on a really short skirt with her boobs hanging out, he would not like that. Yet, a man thinks it is okay to oggle someone else's wife, girlfriend, mother or daughter but would get angry if thier girlfriend or wife does it. Doesn't this seem a bit hypocritical?
2007-06-20 15:34:23 · 8 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You're right. And if you call them on it, they call you a "feminazi" pr "ballbuster" . If your boyfriend/husband has the wandering eye, make lewd comments about attractive men to him. He might not see your point, but you'll feel better- and hey, you saw a hot guy. There's nothing you can do about it, so make it a joke.
2007-06-20 15:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nope. Women do the same thing. Women are actually worse about the double standard. At least we admit it. Don't believe me? Please excuse the logical explanation but if you do a study, say go to the mall. Look at the physically desirable women and the men they are with. Are they with unattractive or even average looking men? Nope. The more attractive a woman is, the more attractive the guy she ends up with (in general of course). Attractive women attract a larger percentage of men. Attractive men generally only go for attractive women. So the Attractive woman has the shallow attractive man in her pool of choices. She can pick and choose. The man she chooses will inevitably be a physically attractive (and perhaps even shallow) man.
Women also suffer from a different double standard. Women are attracted to funny men. In fact for many women this is the most important trait in a man. Well, isn't humor just as superficial as physical appearance?
So indeed. Women are worse.
2007-06-20 23:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You're operating under the false premise that no men would enjoy a revealing outfit on his woman. I enjoy looking at a physically attractive woman as much as I enjoy talking with an intellectually attractive one.
A woman's body is hers to do with as she likes, but I don't think it's entirely unfair to have disdain for a woman who uses a nice body to manipulate people. Fake breasts for example.
2007-06-20 22:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Peter D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does. Basically the sexy clothing turned them on the first time but once she is his, he doesn't want anyone else to desire her so some guys think if their girlfriends don't wear the sexy clothes then no other guy will desire them. I'm sorry if you've had dealings with these types of guys.
2007-06-20 22:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, he only keeps his woman from dressing skimpy because he knows how men think. And woman who dress like that are generally Ho's which are fun to look at but bad for a relationship or marriage.
2007-06-20 22:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes..they do have double standards and they are hypocrites.
2007-06-21 16:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Luv Peace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women are just as hypocritical. But I guess that doesn't matter when you have a chip on your shoulder.
2007-06-20 22:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree, I would prefer that women dress modestly. Even if they don't, you won't catch me staring.
2007-06-21 17:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by cantante 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋