i have a bf weve been goin out for 3 months.. we live far from each other and we dont get to see each other as often as we can. he lives in the city and im from the province. what i would do is i always go to the city coz my family owns a condo there, and meet up with bf also. the thing is lately when we go out i always spend for us.. we watch movie, eat and go on clubs at night drinking.. he would call hes friends also and i get to pay the bills! he didnt even told me that he called them up.
that was the last time we saw each other, it was like 2 weeks ago already.
last night.. i asked him if he could come here in the province to visit me on sunday.. since hes got nothing to do. so i asked him if he could just spend one sunday with me.. just one!
he said he'll try. so that means for me... no! right?
so i said im not arguing with him and i was just askin for a day not a week..
he didnt answer to my messages anymore
and this morning.. he didnt even message me lke what he does..;
2007-06-20 15:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by day-duh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so now what im gonna do is i wont message him now and ill wait him to do something..
if he wont come here on sunday our relationship is over!
you think im doin the right thing?
2007-06-20 15:31:53 · update #1
yes your doing the right thing. He is basically using you. If he can't come to see you then he is not worth it. he sounds like a free loader. He stucks you with the bill and invites his friends. so I would say get rid of him. he is so not worth it. find a new guy.
2007-06-20 15:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will. Lets see I bet he seems nice because he talks to you. Which is a plus. Maybe you should talk to him. Number 1 about the friends thing. Say I would just like to see you not all your friends and if he does not get it then maybe he is not right for you. If he does not tell about the Bill paying ask if you guys can take turns if he does not get it then maybe again he is not right for you. If he does them lets hope you guys can spend more time together! I hope it works out you seem happy to see him!
2007-06-20 22:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r doing the right thing. If he cares about you he should not have to think twice about wanting to spend time with u. He should jump at the chance. If you are always making the effort and he is not, move on. Hon you deserve someone who appreciates you and treats you with respect. It should be the same on both sides. Tell him how you feel, if he doesnt change drop him. You are worth more.
2007-06-20 22:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by DD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think your doing the right thing, by the sounds of it if you stay together you'll be the one do all the running around and paying of bills, i dont mean to be aweful and judgemental but he sounds like a user and i dont mean of drugs. i think you can do way better hun you dont need people like that in your life bringing you down. good luck!
2007-06-20 22:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be over reacting. Let him know that you don't intend to pay for him and his friends anymore. Also you expect him to do his fair share of driving. You can't always drive to see him.
If he doesn't agree, then break it off.
2007-06-20 22:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bum, making you pay all the time. Doesn't look like good husband material.
2007-06-20 22:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't seem very considerate. You haven't been dating that long so, he should be on his best behavior. I think you are wasting your time with him, you deserve way better.
2007-06-20 22:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by lukafoo74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...maybe you should talk about it first, if he really likes then...you don't wanna hurt him, right? so maybe talking to him would be good, although it seems like he's acting like a complete jackhole!! if you wanna break it off with him, go ahead it's your decision!! good luck and best of wishes!! :)
2007-06-20 22:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by *~*flyleaf rocks out loud*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately. Where can I meet a rich guy that will do for me what you do for him? lol
2007-06-20 22:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he maybe seeing some one else maybe that is why he wont call or come see you.
2007-06-20 22:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by betty m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋