Today an old friend of mine's birthday was today, Like I've knowdn this girl for almost 12 years, but we lost contact and hadn't spoke to each other in almost five years, until recently we connected back throught myspace, so anywhoo, the first time we hooked up I notice that she made jokes about me alot, and I know that we were ol time buddies and everything, but she was asking me personal questions likw what do i do when I'm having sex? and what type of postions do I do/? But today, me and her sister(who are closer) took her out to dinner, i ended up treating her to dinner, for her birthday, but I notice that she kept laughing at me , and telling guys at the reastraunt that i was too shy, and she asked me what do i do at home all day ? Probably just eat all day? So i guess hse was trying to say I was fat which I'm not, and then when her boyfriend called she told him that she can laugh at me if she wants too, and she will? and I just didn't understand why would she act like this tow
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towards me,. and I notice that when i had to take her home she didn;t say anything to me during the whole drive which I thought was weird? I just don't know people act like this towards me..
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Then the other day, I had a little graduation dinner, and she came, and she was just staring at me, and then when I would stare back she would roll her eyes, and later on that night had the ordacity to ask me "what do I do when I perform a ********"?
2007-06-20 15:05:53 · 12 answers · asked by Drea B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
No, it's not, and I would speak up and let her know. I would say something like, "You seem to have an unhealthy and obsessive fixation with my sex life. Why is that?" or "What I do with my partner is private. But, if you're looking for pointers, I'm sure a clerk at the book store can direct you to the appropriate self-help books."
Whatever you do, don't answer any of her questions unless you're comfortable with others knowing your answers because, believe me, people like her WILL tell.
Honestly, if she continued to behave inappropriately even after you make it clear to her, I would probably end the friendship with this person. If she were truly interested in being a good friend to you, she wouldn't behave this way after being reunited with you after five years. Don't invite her anywhere else and don't contact her. If she tries to contact you to ask why you're avoiding her, I would explain that after five years, you feel that you two have lost the connection you once had and that your maturity levels don't seem to be compatible now - that it would be an awkward friendship at best, and to spare you both, it would be best to just amicably part ways. Then, I would politely wish her all the best and be done with it.
2007-06-20 18:16:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this soon-to-be-former-friend has a few problems of her own. There is no reason you have to tolerate her behavior.
I would ask the sister you are closer to if she could explain what is going on. I suspect she has treated others this way, and has driven them off, and now is looking for someone new to hang out with.
Simply tell the rude sister that because of the way she has been acting, you no longer are interested in her company or 'friendship'. You have better ways to spend your time.
2007-06-20 15:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by sandyblondegirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
before everything, are you specific it develop into this individual, no longer somebody else enjoying a prank or her being extremely decrease than the effect of alcohol and messing approximately online? Is she many times like this? Secondly, if it extremely develop into her, and you ever talk to her returned, you ought to objective mirroring her behaviour- ask her the comparable styles of questions and prepare her how very beside the point her questions are. Or, you ought to tell her you dont have fun together with her probing questions and picture she ought to get a life and a boyfriend so she wont be so rattling jealous of you and your life. in any different case, the least perplexing factor to do is to block her, as a result saving you each and every of the priority of disagreement.
2016-10-18 05:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by xie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change in time. Distance and time severs the connection between even th truest of friends.
She was probably exposed to bad people. Probably her boyfriend because that's usually a girl's outlet for their sex.
After being influenced like that, she realized that her old self was boring. Since you were the best friend of that old self, she mocks you as boring as well.
She's a lost cause. Try finding a new best friend cause in the end, she might hurt you. Good Luck!
2007-06-20 15:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Coin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You teach others how to treat you. Don't take her crap. Stay away from her. And if she acts crappy to you, then get up and walk away.
She is happy when you suffer. She's not a nice person and you are wasting your time wondering about why she's that way.
Better to move on and spend quality time with people who truly value you for the person you are.
2007-06-20 15:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know those questions aren't appropriate. Or simply tell her that information is private. If she makes you feel uncomfortable with the conversation, change the subject. If she keeps pushing, you may want to distance yourself from her a bit. She will get the hint.
2007-06-20 15:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an idiot. Real mature (not to mention classy) of her to give you sh*t while you're treating her to dinner. No, she's not your friend and she's a child so let her go hang out with someone age-appropriate for her mentality and maturity level.
2007-06-20 15:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When someone is asking you a lot of undesirable questions ask them, "Are you writing a book?" That will stop most of them but for the idiots that are bold enough to say "yes" then tell them to rip that chapter out and stick it up their @$$.
2007-06-20 20:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Big Dick McGee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a friend. Don't allow her to treat you like that. It sounds like she is a rude, inconsiderate, insecure jerk. Stand up to her and end the "friendship".
2007-06-20 15:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by Purdey EP 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first girl. She is not a friend. She is trouble. Stay away.
2007-06-20 15:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by nappyhdfatgrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋