i'm 16 & This year has been the worst ever; I lost my friends (thanks to stupid mouth.) I have never felt more alone. I gained some weight from all this stress, I failed almost all my classes & lost my faith in god; now that its summer I feel more alone than I have ever felt in my life. I really want to believe that I can change it myself but I don't know if there is any chance. I don't really want to tell my mom all these feelings, I like people to think that i'm strong.
I feel sooooo hopeless.
Should I keep my hope up?
2007-06-20 15:03:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Do not lose faith in God because times are rough. Just know that they could be much worse. You must keep your faith and pray everyday. Do not expect answers right away but you will find that God will make things work out in the end. I should know that things can turn around because i was molested and beaten most of my childhood. You find out later that your troubles make you who you are and you learn and grow from them. Trust in God, he has not given up on you!
2007-06-20 15:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course keep your hope up.
Trust me, I had plenty of incidents with friends in highschool...It's part of the nature of the beast. We made up after everything cooled down...even the HUGE blow ups. Weight can always be lost...try taking a walk everyday...good on several points. it of course helps you lose the weight, and also the excersize, especially when done regularly helps raise your endorphons and all that stuff in your brain that can help you fight depression. Failed classes can be made up, and honestly..if your level of failure in your classes was something new then chances are your mom knows something is up already and is hoping for you to come to her (not the best thing parentally, but hey we parents are people too).
Remember...PLEASE remember. these problems are just problems...you don't have to change yourself, just the actions that led to such alienation.
There's a difference in being a bad person, and just doing some bad things.
Talk to your mom, there is no weakness in admitting you need some help..In fact, it's one of the hardest things in life to do. Don't confuse strength and pride.
I really hope things get better for you soon.
2007-06-20 22:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Footsteps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with chelschubz! There is a God and also you shouldnt bother about what people think (Like weak) Exercise is excellent ! also if you want I dont know if you do ,Pick a guitar up and learn and sing about your feelings (Alone) I do this and it lets a lot out! But it is Summer and thats for Haveing fun and I met my first girl at 16 ! that made the Summer fun!
2007-06-20 22:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by DagNaggit limpuladerfy II 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st maybe you should apologize to your friends for whatever happened... get a hobby, like hiking or something. if you had faith before i'm sure you'll get it back, just figure out what made you lose your faith.
you are 16 and these kind of things happen to a lot more people than yourself, so you aren't alone. life can only get better you are still young and have your whole life ahead of you.
2007-06-20 22:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are important, you will feel hopeless with out them.
maybe you made a mistake, we all do.
but if your friends are worth keeping and if you are trying to be a better person, they will see it in you.
it takes time for people to regain trust in each other
but there is always hope
your friends would be proud when they see you make good progress.
stay calm and make the right decitions that your heart is telling you to do.
and remember its not only about showing others who you are, the best feeling is when you know you're doing the right thing
have friends for support but choose on your own
2007-06-20 22:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Luby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, 1) do not say the word hate. Take that word out of your mind, your thoughts, and take away the expression hate from your mouth. That is a negative word. Second, 2) by our mistakes, we learn. Everybody make mistakes. 3)Complaining about feeling longsome, everyone does. Sometimes, even been with many people around we still feel alone. It is because there is an emptiness in our heart, and the only one to fullfil that emptiness is call Jesus Christ, whether you like it or not, or whether you believe it or not. So, talk to God and tell him that you want to give Him your heart for Him to fullfil the emptiness of your heart with His mighty presence and you will not feel alone any more. But in the mean time, take it easy, relax, and read a good book. I suggest to read the Bible. It will give you peace and you will forget the stress. It will go away. You gain weight because you ate food with more calories. Your madness, maybe got you out of control and you ate much more than usual and that 's why you gain weight. So, you will lose some weight pretty soon. Do not worry for that. You failed in your clases because you did not wanted to study enough. That 's nobody fault. You are very young and learning. Next time, dream, wish, go after your goals, try hard and become that person that you want to be. Be smart, inteligent, let nobody to steal your blessing. Never lose your faith in God. Because that is what satan wants from men. If you lose your faith in God, that mean that you are in satan kingdom. So, it is better to be in God 's kingdom. Do not let satan hear you saying those phrases. You will open doors for him to work in your mind. So, God loves you, love Him too. Come on be good.
King David said: " Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret, it leads only to evil, for evil men will be cut off, but those who hope in the Lord will inherit the land". (Psalm 37:8-9). "Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. (Psalm 37:4).
Go to the movies, invite your mother with you. Go visit your relatives. Maybe there are some friends that want your company. Do not think negative, think always positive. It is better. Go to Border's store, see what 's around, what 's new. Do not stay in the house feeling sorry for yourself. That 's what the devil wants. He wants to see you feeling down, with stress. Step on him and feel happy. You have the power to change your thoughts, but God has the power to make a change in your life. So, just believe, and follow the Leader, Jesus Christ. I suggest that you also have a talk with your parents about all your trouble. They are the one to be call to help you, and they are the one that God gave you as parents for them to be your councelors. Also talk to God. He can hear you. Be bless.
2007-06-21 01:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Tititita 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is going to take a lot of strength to do this, but you're going to have to talk to your mom, and you're going to need to see a medical doctor and some sort of counselor. Once you get your mind back together, the weight problem will probably solve itself, or at least it will be easier to solve. Prayer is good. Talking to God can help, but you need to talk to humans who can give physical, immediate help.
2007-06-20 22:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you talk to your mom and go to see a counselor It will be the most likely to help you feel better
2007-06-20 22:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by klr878 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋