i havent actually had a real boyfriend im just afraid of what people will think if i date someone they dont like or you know and what my parents and or siblings will say and i want one but yeah im just afraid and guys dont even ask me out so its not like i just say no but i dont know. how can you tell if a guy likes you.
2007-06-20 14:45:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, don't even worry about what people think about the guy that you're dating. I dated a guy that all of my friends hated and he was the first guy I fell in love with.
And guys WILL ask you out, don't worry. I used to worry about that all the time, but it happened. I don't know how old you are, but if you're young, don't worry. Trust me when I say that it'll come.
And you can tell if a guy likes you by the signs he gives you. Body language, how he talks to you... things like that.
2007-06-20 14:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by nathecat135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position as you..
my family aren'y big on me having boyfriends.. or guy friend for that matter.
Don't be ashamed that you've never had a bf before.. you're still young and there is seriously plenty of time for you to meet new people and date them
You can tell if he stares at you..teases you.. makes an effort to talk to you but may also shy away as he may be nervous...smiles at you...calls you/texts you
2007-06-20 14:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Befriend some people, go out and join groups of friends. Boys don't like to ask you out because they feel that you are a reserved type, a mind your own business type or a loner. Majority of boys does not like that, they like outings so go and start somewhere, you'll be amaze when boys will start calling you....
2007-06-20 14:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by ytootale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation with me though...
sometimes we -girls- need to be open-which mean..u don't have to be afraid to tell someone that u love him..or asking him out..
i know..its not an easy job..but..
its worth for a try..
rejection-no big deal as long as u brave enough and have guts to ask a guy for a date..
i've done it twice..
it is quite damn embrassing..
but..just be cool...
sometimes..guys do appreciate u more..
but..make sure that the guy is 'right' for u..
don't be afraid of what people think..
just follow your heart...
if u know what u do is right..so..nothing is wrong with it...
2007-06-20 15:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by gegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you do people will always have an opinoin and not all of them are gonna be good, the only way a guy is gonna be interested in you is if they know that your into them. start dropping hints if they feel the same way them it'll work, if not then its not ment to be
2007-06-22 14:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by lost~n~confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry what people say about you! you can tell when a guy likes you when he flirts with you!
2007-06-20 14:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all who cares what anyone else thinks? If all we based our lives on is what our friends and family and the public thought, about 95% of us wouldnt be able to find someone "good enough" for us...you will know he likes you if he finds excuses to be around you or to talk to you...
2007-06-20 14:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiwi, Hon I have felt your pain.All I can tell you is be honest and true to your convictions. Turn to Jesus in prayer and in the proper time you will get yours ! Have faith ! ! !
2007-06-20 15:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bf should compliment the person you are...by this I mean be supportive of who you are, and share in the interest that you have in your life...this way your family will welcome such a person ...be patient, continue being yourself and that person will cross your path sooner or later.
2007-06-20 14:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for that special guy.... be picky Its good for the both of you.. then you'll be nuts about him....
2007-06-20 14:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋