I want to have sex really bad but whenever I get asked by a "friend" if I would do it with him I freak out and I cant do it. I feel so stupid when I chicken out! I want this so much. I dont understand how I can want it so bad but not beable to do it!!
2007-06-20 14:42:18 · 13 answers · asked by VERY-CONFUSED...HELP! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you are not ready for it.
2007-06-20 14:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think people drink when they have sex.Wine is the sex drink so have a glass of wine and i guarantee you will want to have sex with him . If you are not old enough to drink then you have a problem.I was 17 1/2 with my first and i was drinking if i hadn't been i no i would not have had sex with my boyfriend that night. I made him wait long enough for it after 8 months i think it was time so i drank a glass of wine and it happened and i was glad to get it over with.The first is the worse after that it was easy but i was ready i don't no about you,you sound very young and if he is just a friend or do you mean a boyfriend?
2007-06-20 21:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have sex with a 'friend'. You should wait until someone really special comes along (and he should feel that you're special too).
Your brain is trying to tell you something! When you meet the right guy, and you get to know each other a little, you will relax and it will be great.
If you have sex with lots of guys in the meanwhile, when that special guy comes along you won't recognize him, he'll just be one more guy to have sex with.
2007-06-20 21:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are going to have sex with a friend.. maybe you should wait until you know this is the right person for you. If this person was right for you, more than likely you wouldn't feel so nervous, in the meantime buy yourself some female toys.. that will get rid of your urge!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-20 21:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by reeree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your knickers on kiddo. you are no where near ready to start having sex. If you think you feel stupid now, it will be worse later if you decide to just give into the friend that's just asking to have sex.
2007-06-20 21:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by doctdon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont plan sex.... you just have to let it happen. Thats what sex is all about. Trust me I've had the same problem.
Try starting a relationship first, let the lust over eachother build.
You'll see what i mean =)
2007-06-20 21:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably cos you know you should be doing it with someone you love and not just get used by a "friend" Trust your gut, it is guiding you in the right way.
2007-06-20 21:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to me that u dont really want to have it but u shouldnt just have it wit anybody because u will end up getting hurt in the end
2007-06-20 21:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by I love Dionne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been brainwashed by videos and TV....you want it coz you see it...but scared coz you have no idea who to do it with nor have any idea how to react to it...its a big jump...be honest to yourself..if you're not ready..then dont do it...wanting it aint the same as being ready...there is a lot to consider...
2007-06-20 21:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Chikitamtamtam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time they ask and you want to dont say anything just look down and smile a little
2007-06-20 21:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by hOtNsPiCeY91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you will regret it later .Wait until you are in love or married . How old are you any ways????????
2007-06-20 21:48:32 · answer #11 · answered by rhonda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋