I think a suit may be too hot...any protocols or traditional outfits that could be used?
2007-06-20 14:38:54 · 8 answers · asked by daff73 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would think that a nice short-sleeved dress shirt, a tie, and a pair of khakis would be just fine! Ten years from now, no one will remember what he wore to the funeral (and they MAY not even remember later on in the same day!) but being hot and uncomfortable on an already uncomfortable day will forever stand out in his mind. Heat stroke is a more important issue than etiquette!
As for all those people talking about respect....granny would probably want her grandson to be comfortable and healthy! Respect has nothing to do with how a person dresses, but what's in their heart. And besides, are we trying to show respect for the deceased person (who probably couldn't care less what the mourners wear) or for the other people who might gossip if someone doesn't dress the way they think he should? Forget the gossips, just do what feels right to you! If someone would be ill-bred enough to show such disrespect as to talk about what the deceased's grandson wears to her funeral then they aren't worth sweating over!
2007-06-20 14:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by married_so_leave_me_alone1999 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Normally a black or dark blue suit would be appropriate, but considering it's going to be in the 90s, I'd say maybe a grey suit, or even dark pants and a white shirt (no jacket). I'm sure if it's this hot, he won't be the only one there dressed in non-traditional funeral clothes, and most people will be understanding. Besides--who goes to funerals and critiques the clothing of others?? If someone is crass enough to do that, they're at the funeral for the wrong reason!
2007-06-21 11:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
out of traditional respect it should be a dark color, but there are many choices out therre to keep cool. Linen or lightweight wool suits are available. Be sure to wear a short sleeved shirt and tie. If the heat is unbearable chances are that there will be a tent covering the gravesite.
Use lots of powder and your anti perspirant. Make sure your garments fit well and not tightly. A light colored hat will do wonders, perhaps a nice straw.
Go to Gentlemans Wearhouse or a good mens department like Lord and Taylor, Macy's, or Nordstroms and ask the salesman/woman for tips. You don't have to buy anything.
2007-06-20 21:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by cubcowboysgirl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the post above. I don't think he needs to wear a suit. A casual cool comfy look is quite suitable. Considering the weather, there will be many that will wish they had on the same outfit. Sorry about his loss.
2007-06-20 21:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by DOT 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If the man wishes to show respect for the sad occasion, he wears a dark suit, pale shirt and tie.
If the man is part of the Me Generation and concerned about his personal comfort, he wears whatever falls out of his closet.
Everyone will easily be able to judge which group he falls into.
2007-06-20 21:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
black, dark blue or gray dress pants, a short sleeve dress shirt (ANY COLOR except red, pink, yellow, green) and a tie to match with SOLID COLORS... (for example gray slack, light blue shirt and gray tie..) you don't want to go looking like a BIG old flower---no need to wear just black, as long as you look somber....
2007-06-20 21:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by LittleBarb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as it is black i think your ok. black will show his respect for his grandmother. i would sweat it out and wear a suit.
2007-06-20 21:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Gifford 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dark suit or dress and sweat it out. It's respect, not comfort
2007-06-20 22:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by xjoizey 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋