I am having such a hard time choosing who should be what. I like all of the people I chose to be in my wedding, but I can't choose who should be what! So i made them all my maid of honors. But i need to choose one maid of honor, how should i choose???
2007-06-20 13:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by TAMMI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
For the MOH, you choose the person closest to you in your heart.
2007-06-21 02:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of these people that say you don't have to choose are wrong. The big thing the Maid of Honor needs to do is sign as a witness of the wedding. You can only have two witness signatures. So you will have to choose someone to sign. Maybe you could pick the one with the neatest penmanship? Just a thought.
Or you could ask them to decide amongst themselves. I know I was in a wedding where we had all been friends since grade 1. The bride couldn't choose so she asked for our input and we decided for her. There were no hard feelings as we all knew that we would eventually be in the same situation. The Maid of Honor duties seemed to get rotated pretty evenly amongst us and we've all been there for each other. That's the main thing. If they are all close friends they will understand your problem and help you make the decision.
Good luck
2007-06-20 13:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me say congratulation, it is possible for you to have as many brides maids but only one maid of honor, your maid of honor must be the closest person to you , sister, best friend a loyal and faithful person
to end all the worries you can just choose me( :
2007-06-20 13:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by girlpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I chose my MOH was by the fact that she's been with me since we were in elementary school. I love all my friends dearly and I let them know they all have a special place in my heart, but I just feel like this one girl is like my little sister. They all understood. And as much as I would LOVE for all of them to be MOH I could only choose one... Good luck with your decision, and just let them all know that it was a difficult decision to make, I'm sure they'd understand. If not then maybe you should reconsider them being in the wedding at all. Because true friends will be happy with just being at the wedding.
2007-06-20 13:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally the mom sits in the pews and is just being proud of her son or daughter. And best friends are bridesmaides while the oldest sister, or next youngest is maid of honor
2007-06-20 13:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by nining d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there isn't a clear distinction, you don't have to make one...you can simply have bridesmaids and divide the responsibilities that would normally fall to the moh to the various bridesmaids. If you still really want a MOH, pick the most responsible one, the one who will be around and be able to plan a good shower and bachelorette party, who will be able to delegate responsibilities on the day, etc
2007-06-20 13:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by its about time 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it quite is alright to have anybody you opt for be the MOH as a results of fact it quite is the bride's determination and the bride is oftentimes used with who would be there for her. The MOH is a huge place. it quite is commonly an oftentimes taking place place as a results of fact the Maid of Honor to understand what's expected of her and to do many ranging initiatives. The MOH would desire to undergo in strategies that each bride is distinctive. The would desire to make the effort to talk with the bride to be certain what's important to her and pointers on the thank you to easily right help her. mutually as there are a number of issues that the MOH does, right this is a quick checklist... •help bride with wedding ceremony errands/judgements •Pay for gown, shoes and upload-ons •Host/Co-host the bathe •Plan a bachelorette (if proper) •Attend wedding ceremony appropriate purposes •Make a toast on the reception (if proper) •help bride as she clothing for the ceremony •help bride in the time of the day •Rally the bridesmaids and help stay away from any conflict this is the main important place of all. as a results of fact of this it quite is important for the bride to decide for who they sense will suited greater healthful the region. No harsh emotions would desire to be taken as there are a number of people to fill this job and an incredible sort of the clarification why the bride will decide for one individual over the subsequent. consequently, I say that it quite is advantageous for a SIL to be the bride's MOH and not the quite sister. nonetheless, we are all human and emotions are continuously present, that can (of direction) create a chain of issues all on it quite is very own. good success!
2016-09-28 04:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k you're better off having all bridesmaids and NO maid of honor.. and for what reason do you need to choose? because people expect you to?
2007-06-20 13:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them all your maid of honor. Noone said that you can only have one.
2007-06-20 13:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, they can't all sign your marriage certificate.. you need to pick one.. how do you choose?
-who is it you call first when something exciting happens
-who is the person you enjoy hanging out with the most
-who do you think will be your friend forever
if you really can't decide, get them all together and draw it out of a hat
2007-06-20 22:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋