My boyfriend is a water safety instructor and i am a lifeguard and most often I lifeguard for his class,well today we kissed right in front of the class...i feel like i was rude....was that rude?
2007-06-20 12:27:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not rude, but definitely unprofessional.
2007-06-20 12:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by puppies.sunshine 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It may not be rude, if the kids in the class did not find it rude. But did it make any of them uncomfortable? If so, then it should not happen. But also, it is unprofessional. You both seem to be employed at the pool and kissing is not professional and could be seen as a hostile work environment by others.
2007-06-20 19:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by oaktown.lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you felt it was rude, then that signifies you are not one for public affection.
Some people do display public affection and some don't.
Follow your conscience.
As long as there isn't heavy petting involved or as long as it doesn't look like the couple needs a room, it's considered ok.
Personally, I don't like it when there is a lot of affection going on. A quick kiss is ok.
2007-06-20 19:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anna Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you could have ripped your boyfriends clothes off and jacked him off into a plastic cup and taken a drink, after which he could have pleasured you with a chicken bone and licked barbecue sauce off of your nipples. I would say it was polite to only kiss him in front of the class instead
2007-06-20 20:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wasn't rude. I'm sure they've seen people kiss before, it's nothing new. As long as you weren't making out and groping each other in front of some little kids...your fine.
2007-06-20 19:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Marie Jane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was somewhat unprofessional, but nothing to fret too much about. Having said that, if it made you uncomfortable, you should have a talk with your boyfriend about it. Just set some boundaries with him regarding what kind of contact you are comfortable with when you are working.
2007-06-20 19:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by manatee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it may not be the best example plus the parents may not like it...ive been in that situation i'm a lifeguard too
2007-06-20 19:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
A litte awkward for the class
2007-06-20 19:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Japhy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It wasn't the crime of the century, but you should keep your romance out of the class. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, but I wouldn't do it again.
2007-06-20 19:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Daisy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time maybe you can cover by saying your warming up for mouth to mouth resuscitation lessons.
2007-06-20 19:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋