I'm thinking about sending her this message on Friday.
"Just wanted to say Hi! Call me if you want to talk. My phone number is 555-999-5525."
We talked online since she's out of town, but she hasn't replied to me for two weeks. I remembered she doesn't really like talking online that much and prefers talking to me on the phone. She also might have been going through some stress at the time so she didn't really want to talk. I'm planning on sending the message one week after my last one, which is in two days. Then I remembered girls don't like guys that are to nice, and she said she likes thugs. At the same time, she's said I'm a "good boy" and not a thug, but she seems to actually like that about me. I don't want to seem too nice, but I think she already knows I'm a nice guy. If she likes me, (a lot of people say she does) I must be an exception to her liking thug types. If that's the case then I should be ok right? Now that I think about t, she has told me things she likes about me.
2007-06-20 11:49:12 · 12 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm waiting a week in order to give her space. She didn't tell me to give her space or that she doesn't want to talk to me. She would have because she's very blunt and honest.
2007-06-20 11:51:26 · update #1
Didn't I say that she DIDN'T say she doesn't want to talk to me? I also said that she will if she has too because she's a VERY BLUNT person? I didn't say she told me she doesn't like me because she HASN'T.
2007-06-20 11:58:22 · update #2
Online suffices for some contact, but nothing takes the place of face to face - not even the phone. Long distance relationships aren't exactly easy either, if that is the case...though this may not be your case, dunno.
What do you mean? "girls don't like guys that are too nice?" No dear, its more like girls shy away from being pushed too much by guys and often, being a bit more subtle works better - but it shouldn't have anything to do with being "nice". Schmoks are less than attractive, though a lot of stupid women fall for them foolishly.
Her choice in guys, (hopefully, formerly) shows immaturity, but, if she indicates she LIKES you (through others) play it cool and don't be overbearing. I think your message is fine and let's see if she will call you...I'd leave the ball in her "court" after messaging this to her though...then see what happens.
Grace
2007-06-20 11:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The message is kinda' nice. You don't have to edit it. There's nothing wrong with it. But if you wanna make it sound more "thug-like", put a little ********* in your message. I'm not really good at this but you could make it sound like "Hey girl, wanna talk? 555-999-5525" Or "What's up (whatever her name is)? Wanna talk? 555-999-5525".
Just remember this. Since she wants a badass gangster type of guy, you can't be exaggeratedly polite. You can be nice to her, just skip the politeness. She doesn't need it..... In fact, most girls nowadays really don't need it. But that doesn't mean that you treat have to disrespect her.
2007-06-20 12:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it more like this.
Hey girl, Haven't heard from you in a minute. Hit my phone up at 555-999-5525.
Later
2007-06-20 11:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - you are spending a lot of time obsessing over a girl that has already told you that she's not interested. Send it and if you don't get an immediate response (within a day) then move on. There are plenty of girls out there that like nice guys.
2007-06-20 11:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by helpforyouinaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, wow um why couldnt you just e-mail her or call?? Um explain how much she means to you to her and that you didnt just leave you tried to be there and didnt want to disturb her during her exams etc. You were being a good bf. Maybe she got the letter kind of late?? Just let her know you love her and cannot see yor life without her in it. You ahould get her some flowers. this should change her anger right away if you are sincere and honest. If not, she is a ***** move on.
2016-05-21 02:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a nice guy don't change the way you are because she likes thugs.If she likes you she needs to like you for you. Don't ever try to be what you are not for someone else.Ask this girl the hard ? does she like you or not.
2007-06-20 12:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Gifty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send it and see what happens, if she is looking for a thug then apparently you were meant for each other. take the chance and show her that you are a nice guy
2007-06-20 11:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with being nice? nice girls like nice boys. But i don't think that would sound too nice. It sounds kinda neutral if you ask me
2007-06-20 11:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Biz-e girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is she?
2007-06-20 11:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send it, but if she doesn't respond leave her alone.
2007-06-20 11:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sister Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋