He told me that I'm as much use as a one legged man at an ars+ kicking party
2007-06-20 09:04:33 · 21 answers · asked by mickeok 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
maybe he was having a bad day, I wouldn't quit yet, stick it out for a little bit more, and if he does insult you again, just talk to him, CALMLY and tell him you don't appreciate that, and he still insults you then i would put in a complaint with his superiors, and if that doesn't work then i would consider another job if it bugs you enough, and if you think you can stay there and not let it bug you then try and work through it, however if you want another job don't quit till you know you have another job lined up
2007-06-20 09:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummmm....NO. Are you kidding? You can't just pack up and leave when things get rough. You should schedule a meeting and ask him/her if that is really how they feel. If so, ask what you can do to improve your performance. If no, than you have cleared the air and there are no more worries. Haven't you ever had a bad day and just needed to vent? Im a receptionist, I catch **** all the time from people because I am the first person they see.
2007-06-20 17:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by ashchicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have another job to go to?
What happened? Perhaps he shouldn't make comments like these- there are other ways to tell you if you have done something improperly.
Unless you have a big paying job somewhere else, I would say, stick it out. Are you going to quit every time someone insults you?
And, if this keeps up, there are ways and people to talk to about harassment. Take the high road.
2007-06-20 17:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lizzie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Is it a good job? How long have you worked there? Were you doing something wrong? Is this the first time he's been mean?
Sometimes they'll treat you like that because they want you gone. Sometimes it'll get worse. Or maybe their under stress. In any rate you don't want to try to get back at him because he could ruin your future jobs.
2007-06-20 17:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by fleaishere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is the type that holds ars e kicking parties, the jokes on him. If you are earning good money just smile - you'll have the last laugh. He's probably sad with no man-management skills. Don't take it to heart.
2007-06-20 16:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends are you well paid, can you get a job some where Else did he mean to insult you are you good at your job, was it over a small f uck up or a big one was it for no reason, or is he just an *** he got to you so let him know how you feel and why
2007-06-24 11:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is called humor. Not all humor involves kittens and sunshine. If that's the worst thing people say to you at work, then you must have a pretty nice job.
Is suffering this terrible indignity (sarcasm) really worth leaving your job and paycheck for?
2007-06-20 16:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by david c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is insulting. Ask him to explain exactly what he means by that. Ask what you are doing or not doing that displeases him.
He sounds like a jerk, but maybe he will wise up and actually give you constructive information.
2007-06-20 16:13:40 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's out of order speaking to you like that. If you don't want to take steps against him within whatever company you work for, at least wait until you have another job before quitting your current one.
2007-06-20 16:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
and are you? what did you do to upset him? in anycase he sounds out of order. they are ways of talking to staff that are more professional. have you a chance of another job at the moment. think carefully, before you lose a job. maybe he was having a bad day.
2007-06-20 16:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by heavymetalbitch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋