2007-06-20 08:36:51 · 36 answers · asked by daniel a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her what her problem is
2007-06-20 08:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's an ex, it's possible she is in a commited relationship right now, and is starting to feel guilty. Was it just a quick hook-up, or do you plan to get back together with her? Maybe being with you has reminded her of the old things that used to annoy her, and now she want to try to back out of any relationship with you. The best way to find out for sure is just to ask her. If you can have sex with this girl, try to find the courage to see whats going on in her head. That's about the most sensitive thing a guy can do.
2007-06-20 08:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a reason she's your ex! Did you think that by making love that you guys were getting back together? Sounds like you jumped right back in bed with her blindly. Next time think before you leap.
2007-06-20 08:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by screwed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try and talk about the situation with her. See where things are going with the two of you. If she still ignores you when you want to talk than just leave her alone and give her space.
2007-06-20 09:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite often us ladies like to have 'one for the road' to put it politely. It doesnt mean anything (as the chaps normally say) On the other hand maybe she was hoping it would rekindle all the old feelings, and it didnt.
If you want her back, the best thing to do is tell her and find out if she wants the same.
if you dont want her back, then just put it down to experience.
2007-06-20 08:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...she wasn't possibly actually making love with you....she might have been having some really nice naughty sex with ya though partner!!! Some women treat sex just as casually as some of us men do!!! Get used to it dude....it's the new women's rage for their new fangled sexual revolution. Where are these women hanging when we need them in our presence anyways? Don't worry too much partner.....I'm sure that her intentions were to create good feelings within ya....how does it feel to be used for sexual gratification without strings though otherwise?
2007-06-20 08:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be embarrassed and/or regretting that it happened. Your best bet is to simply call her/email her, whichever is easier for you. Simply state that you realize she isn't happy about what happened by the way she is acting and ask her if there is anything you can do to resolve it. If she responds favorably, go from there. If she doesn't, you'll just have to accept that it's her problem, not yours and let it be. Good luck!
2007-06-20 08:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jessi 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U shud never sleep wiv ur ex! most of the time they want 2 humiliate u!
2007-06-20 09:04:29 · answer #8 · answered by xxprincess mexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. She's probably just actually realizing what happened and needs time to analize the situation. Give her some time to her self a week or so then give her a call or leave her a message and ask her out for lunch or breakfeast.
2007-06-20 08:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Latina 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well she was just using you then so when she looks at you just smile and ignore her, girls hate when you do that and if she talks to you then say I have moved on I dont want you. Beleive me I know I am a girl.
2007-06-20 08:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by katie n 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She obviously feels she made a mistake, and you have to face that. Send her a light message saying that, if it were up to you, you'd love to see her again - but if it's not what she wants then you'll understand.
The ball is in her court then - if she doesn't come back, you'll know the score.
2007-06-20 08:40:10 · answer #11 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋