Is there a type of man that you would not be able to resist? Someone that all your defenses would be useless against?
2007-06-20 08:10:00 · 22 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've described this man to my friends many times before. Time and time again they've told me he doesn't exist. I came close to thinking he was actually out there, but then again, if he isn't, I"m pretty content as I am right now. :)
First he'd grab my attention, not by his looks.... but by his subtle , clever wit. He wouldn't need to be the center of attention. He'd be confident enough and comfortable enough in his own skin that standing on the sidelines watching was plenty. The thing is..... that he'd be so oblivious to just how humorous he is that he wouldn't realize how the attention gradually shifted to him. Everyone would be so enamoured with him because of how low key he kept his wit. He'd be the one that just layed us out with a "ZINGER" when we least expected it.
He'd be the kind of guy that could stay up all night talking with me while it seemed like only 15 minutes passed by. We'd be laughing non stop. He'd be a bit afraid to open up and tell me about himself only because he would never want to feel like he was bragging or showing off his accomplishments. Confidence.... but to him........ so unnecessary to ever let his accomplishments be known. He'd be someone that would answer any question I had, but would always come back with, "And what about you?" A true partner.... knowing that a conversation is 50/50. Someone who loves music and is open to be introduced to all kinds. Someone who understands how a song can express something maybe in a way that even a night long conversation couldn't.
Someone of intelligence...... with opinions. That isn't afraid to take a stand...... even if it goes against the majority. It isn't even as though his opinions would EVER have to agree with mine.... but to know a man that feels passionately about something and sticks to that feeling...... it shows great strength.... great character.
Someone who loves to live..... not just exist. Someone who cares enough about their body and soul to get out and DO. To travel and get outdoors to feel and take in and be a part of life......... not just exist within it. Someone who can be among people even if he is just within himself. Confident enough to even go to a party and stand in the corner taking it all in, yet never saying a word. But able to give me a look that I could turn into paragraphs of words, because I would know his thoughts so well.
Someone that is my best friend..... first and foremost. Doesn't worry about the commitment of love as much as the committment of friendship. KNows that that unconditional friendship will remain even if love can't survive. To lose a love is sad..... to lose your best friend is devastating. He will understand this.
He'd enjoy kids.... and therefore, support me as a parent.... and as a teacher. He'd take interest in my job and LOVE that I take interest in his as well. No matter what his job is, he'll know that I am proud of him and he'll reflect that as tells me his day and asks about mine.
He'll be as passionate in the bedroom as he is about life. He'll understand how important it is to make love so softly with feeling one moment...... and letting lose his inner most passions the next. There would be nothing we wouldn't share.... nothing we'd deny each other.
I think the one thing I've failed to mention is the physical attraction. It's odd...... it's never really mattered much to me. I suppose its the mind I've always fallen in love with.... the heart... the soul. God... nothing is sexier to me than the humor that comes out naturally and cleverly. It's amazing how once you know someone on the inside...... how differently they appear to you on the outside. I couldn't imagine just thinking he was adorable....... gorgeous...... if he showed me how beautiful he was on the inside.
This would be the man.... that would be my best friend for life.
2007-06-20 11:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
IF there were such a man, he would be not to tall, around 5'10-5'11...he'd have chocolate brown hair and green or gray eyes...he'd be fit and kind of muscular...but not like those crazily overbuilt guys with eight packs...that turns me off...he'd have a sexy voice and be totally kind and old-fashioned when it came to romance...he'd have a mysterious way about him but would always be honest when I asked him a question...he'd be mature and stand out from the rest of the guys by being so much more...thoughtful i guess is the word...he'd also have a sense of humor however and would always know how to make me laugh...he'd be my protector and would always give me lectures on staying safe and not to put my self at risk, should such an occasion ever arise...he also should be at least a little older than me...by at least six months...
I think you get the picture ;)
2007-06-20 15:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mags 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking about looks or personality? A guy that makes me melt everytime he looks in my eyes, I forget what I was saying every time he smiles at me, someone who doesn't have to think of the right thing to say because it's just natural. Someone that makes me forget my bad days at work, someone that understands when I'm frustrated and can tell me to relax. A guy that kisses me just because and someone that calls to tell me they were thinking of me. That isn't tooooo much to ask is it? Oh wait, I'm still single so maybe it is. Haha
2007-06-20 15:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes older than me, about 4 years older than me. he's slightly taller than me with brown shaggy hair and beautiful blue eyes i can stare into and lose myself. he sees the things in me that noone else knows or cares to notice, hes cocky but at the same time passionate. he thinks hes a bad *** but when it comes to me hes all over the place. he cant resist me. he knows who he is and is way to self confident for his own good. hes ego is so big it leaves no room for you to breath when hes around. he says exactly what he feels, he holds nothing back. so why did i let him go??
2007-06-20 15:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clean cut man in a suit. Love it!!! Actually I have been married twice and both men made the statement on our 1st date that someday I would be their wife. Maybe I can't resist a confident man!
2007-06-20 15:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Kay 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
a guy who can always make me laugh and is laid back who just goes with the flow. a guy who can be random and can be silly with me so i won't feel like a weirdo being the only one with lots of energy. i like a guy who challenges me, won't let me win an argument or a basketball game just cause i'm a girl. plus a cute face wouldn't hurt=)
2007-06-20 15:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is confident in himself, has a good heart, makes me laugh, can be mischievous, and who (#1 most important) treats me the same way I treat him (i.e., with respect and love).
2007-06-20 15:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by December2006Bride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first love. Tall, redish-brown hair, great smile, great sense of humor, &&completely committed to me.
2007-06-20 15:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first crush...blond, plays sports, quiet, tall, and intelligent. Someone who makes me feel valued.
2007-06-20 15:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know Lord of the Rings? Legolas from that movie. or rugged looking one. I forgot his name.
2007-06-20 15:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by canteringfool 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋