my boyfriend and i , well ex i think now, havent talked since yesterday after i had hung the phone up on him. we had an argument, i was crying, he tried to call me back several times in the half hour after the fight happened. i changed my voicemail password and havent called him back since yesterday morning when the fight happened. i feel like i ended things with him by saying what i said and hanging up, but after almost 2 years going out i dont want to be immature and want to make sure he realizes my feelings. should i call him to tell him it's over? or wait and see if he gets it that it's over and leave it alone? i am in love with him but working things out i dont think is going to solve the problems we have. ... do i owe it to him to talk to him about things? or owe it to myself that he doesnt care about me obviously and just let him be?
2007-06-20 07:41:57 · 6 answers · asked by Jo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
First of all you have to ask yourself if you really love this guy, if he really means something to you. If that feeling is strong enough to let it drag you to this relationship. You know i have had relationships that have lasted for 2 or more years and sometimes it felt like i really loved this person. But after analyzing the situation i realize that all the "love" i said i had was just something that i got used to have. I could not imagine myself living without this person, and that felt like love. Now tell me is it fair to you to say that you love someone so much when it has only become a routine. Now lets analyze the other side of the story. Lets say that you really love him and you realize that your love is "real" then take that phone and call him back, what do you know maybe he is really the one that you have been waiting for. It is not like he has not call yo to see what was wrong. Anyways you owe it to yourself and to him to, to straight up this situation.
Good luck
2007-06-20 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness girl call him and tell him. I have been on the other end before and it is horrible. You were with him for 2 years!! Thats a long time to be with someone and put time, love and effort into a relationship. You owe it to him to explain why you dont want to be with him and what went wrong. Believe me it is torture to just get ignored and dissmissed that way. He is probably going crazy trying to figure out what is going on. Call him!!!
2007-06-20 14:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definatly need to talk to him and if he kept calling you back he does care, im not sure what you said to him but you probably hurt him. Please call him I know how it feels to be ignored with alot of questions. 2 years in along time to be with someone so yes talk to him, he deserves an explanation
2007-06-20 14:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by dgaodg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to call you and then tell him. Don't let him get his hopes up by seeing that you are calling him. Hen he calls just answer and say " Before you say anything just let me say what I need to say..." and then tell him everything that is on your mind. Good Luck!
2007-06-20 14:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an unhappy relationship.
just call him to tell him its over so that you dont have it looming over your head.
2007-06-20 14:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it*.. Its time to get out of Dodge*... {NEXT}* He who angers you has conquered you*...
2007-06-20 15:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋