well, i promised my neice, jane that i would take her to disney world.
now my three kids, jack, nick, and annie want to go and i dont want them to. I don't know what to say to them because I want to be a caring mother and i dont want to hurt their feelings.
2007-06-20 06:38:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
wow, is this really a serious question? You are taking your niece and not your own children?
If that is truly the case, seriously, your kids are going to be so hurt. I would wait until you can afford to take them all, if money is the issue. If money is not the issue, maybe you can explain things so we can better understand.
2007-06-20 08:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by 1lmichele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have to take your kids, it just wouldn't be fair. Or maybe Jane's mom could also go with you guys and that way it wouldn't be so expensive. If money is not the issue and watching to many kids is then tell them all that your not going to go. Your kids come before other kids. Take them all together or don't take them at all. That's what I would do because that's not fair.
2007-06-20 13:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥Nicole♥♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With the type of question you actually asked, I don't know how you could put caring mother in the paragraph. What kind of parent would offer to take your niece and not your children. If you can't afford to take all of them, then your shouldn't take anyone at all. If you do take your niece and not your kids be careful. Look for emancipation papers to come your way soon. If my parent ever did that to me, it would negatively change our relationship forever. Think of your future.
2007-06-20 15:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you go taking your niece to Disney World you should invite your own kids. I mean they are your own kids. How would you like it if your mother took your cousin to Disney and not you?
Take them with you.
2007-06-20 21:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by fαℓℓ ιи ¢нσ¢σℓαтє(: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you visit the greatest place on earth (for children) and not take your kids? I mean, that is kinda mean. If you couldn't afford it, you shouldn't of told them at all. Poor things. That is torture on a kid. No matter what this is going to hurt them until their adults. When their all older their going to be talking among each other and say "remember that time mom went to Disney world and didn't take us... I'm sure, that place is for kids" mark my words.
2007-06-20 13:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by luv2help 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you promise to take your niece and not take your own children? You are a terrible mother. I feel sorry for your poor kids.
2007-06-20 15:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you take one you have to take all!! You kids will never forgive you!
We want last year and my boys still talk about it...it was the best time we have ever had. I did not think my 5 year old would remember things, but he can tell you today what happen here like it was yesterday.
You have to take them too
2007-06-20 14:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke right? I don't think any loving mother would deny their kids of something and take her niece. I understand she's family...but instead of saying oh i'll take all of them..i don't want to take my kids...Aghhh poor kids
2007-06-20 15:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds terrible that you wouldn't want to take your own kids. A caring mother would not take someone elses kids but not her own. Start there.
2007-06-20 14:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by motherofthree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question would be much easier to answer if you had listed the age of your niece and children. If they are young, I would answer one way but if they are older that's a different story.
2007-06-20 19:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋