RELATIONSHIP PROBLEM... PLEASE HELp?

Question

ok here goes... my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because she somehow has evidence i was cheating. the weird thing is i never cheated.. seriously.. we werent together too long a few months and its still new and fun i have no reason to go elsewhere. she thinks she knows something but theres no truth in it. ive been buggin her to explain but she wont tell me where its coming from. we almost broke up a few weeks ago because it was going too fast but she came runnin right back. she was scared to get hurt aparently but came to her sences i guess. i have slight suspicions about a guy thats been callin her late night. what do you think is goin on? is this an excuse to just leave or do you guys think shes trying to get something outta me?the morning she was fine and sweet and at like 2 this all happened

Answer 1

Find this guy and confront him... non-violently of course

Answer 2

Dude, what are you standing there for? Run, and run now! If in fact you have not cheated on her, then she is doing one of 2 things. A) She is using this as an excuse to break up with you (with no real proof. Otherwise she wouldn't think twice about providing this so called proof of something so terrible to her) or B) Playing you like a deck of cards because you have already let her back once and figures that you'll do it again at a later date.
My advice would be to find a girl more mature than this one. At least one that is more honest with you. Almost sounds as though she was just using you to fill a void.
Go with your most honest thoughts of the situation. And by all means do the thinking with your BIG head. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Sounds like the cheating thing is an excuse. If anything, a girl would at least want an explanation or something. You can try to tell her, maybe an email or letter to allow the time for you to write it all out, but she isn't being honest with you, something else is up.