alright i have 3 boyfriends and i cant choose
either my emo bf who is the sweetest
my normal bf that is the 1 that i tell everything
or my cute bf who is also funny and smart
2007-06-20 05:48:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not the cute boyfriend whos funny and smart cuz you need a relationship that is deeper than that and i dont think the emo boy either. A relationship is based on trust and if you cant talk to them whats the point. Like for me-before l ever dated my boyfriend we became best friends. l got to the point l could tell him anything and it was comforting to be with him. l cant tell you exactly who to choose but just make a desision based on who you the most comfortable around and who makes yout he happiest. whoever you choose just do it- and do it fast cuz its not right to have all 3 of them in this situation.
2007-06-20 05:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way.........he touched you wrong and you didn't say anything and then he raped your friend. If he gets away with it then chances are he will do the same thing again and again until finally someone does the right thing and prosecutes him. It is understandable that you don't want to get your family involved in this but if you have a younger sister really consider it, how would you feel if you said or did nothing and then he did it to her. Statistics show each time a rapist attacks they get more violent than the previous attack, could you handle knowing a woman was disfigured or killed by this man and you could have said something. He is 18 years old, he is an adult and as an adult he has to know that life has consequences to it. The only way for him to change is to have to face what he has done AND be remorseful for it. You are almost sounding like now you want to protect him. If he touched you once he will again, if he has raped once he will again. Do him a favor and get him some help and be theri for your friend.
2016-05-20 22:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reconciled yourself to choosing, I would go with the bf that you tell everything. Communication is a very important part of making a relationship work.
On the other hand, I love a man who can make me laugh. I wouldn't choose the emo simply because it is nice to be able to have a guy who can be strong if you need him to be. (not that I'm saying someone who is sweet can't be strong, but. . .)
2007-06-20 05:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you have not found the right person yet, cuz he would have most or all the qualities you desire, but for a safe and fun bet go with the one you communicate best "normal bf".
2007-06-20 05:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by GrantS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the one that you would consider your best friend. If none of them fit the bill on that one, keep looking. I married my best friend and thank my lucky stars that I didn't go for the cutest, the smartest, the funniest, or the sweetest guy...and that I got all of those things in one tidy package.
2007-06-20 05:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a box of condoms. Or a case. Or just have all 3 at once!
2007-06-20 05:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by GB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would listen to you heart
which one can you trust
id go with the normal one
just becuase you can tell everything to him
it sounds like you to have the best relationship to me!
but i cant really tell you what your heart is thinking!
sooo
GOOD LUCK!
2007-06-20 05:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Accidently on Purpose. (: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is usually best. If you can tell him everything you must be pretty comfortable with him. I wouldn't go out with someone only because of their looks. Only you can decide who you are the happiest with.
2007-06-20 05:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it was me total emo bf
2007-06-20 05:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that you can't live without. If it came down to it who would you spend your life with?
2007-06-20 05:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋