i am wiccan, i need to remove a curse?

Question

i have been wiccan for many years now, and a friend of mine has too. we were once a part of a coven, but when i got married and moved away, i became a solitary wiccan. i have practiced on my own for a while now. since i left i have had a run of bad luck, my husband lost his job, we lost our house, our car broke down, all within a short period of time. we moved back home and when i got in touch with my friend, we went out for drinks and after a few she told me she was so mad at me when i left her that she placed a curse on me with the help of another former friend. what do i do? I need to remove the curse. And before you say im crazy, im not. I take this very seriously. i dont want my former friend hurt, but i need to know a counter spell to lift the curse. i have looked all over and can't find anything

she got was she deserved, you should see her husband, and her kid looks just like him, i know it was wrong, but i just had to say

Answer 1

I would do a cleansing ritual...
I suggest including sage. I write all my rituals myself, and I suggest simple poetry as a medium. Have your husband help you! Just make sure that you truely believe your ritual will work. Call the corners, recite your poetry, burn some sage, wrap it up like any normal spell. As mentioned before, your friend has broken the wiccan crede, and she will have to face consequences. I would just forgive her and send our your forgiveness energy into the universe, try to allow your positive energy to cleanse all this negativity. Good luck, BB.

Answer 2

Then I guess she wasn't a pure Wiccan then since Wicca is strict on causing harm, both spiritual and physical to any other being. Personally to me, even though I'm Wiccan, I don't believe curses exist, it's probably all in your head, not trying to offend in any way but maybe it's not the curse that's hurting your love life, i mean the curse she casted on you seems too broad and not specific enough, i mean EVERYONE has some sort of problem with their love life in some way. For example, lets just say my friend casted a bad luck curse on me, when something bad happens a few days later, i automatically accuse or rationalize its because of the curse. Know what i mean?

Answer 3

I am from Cuba - and became informed with vudu, both the benign part of it and the malevolent. I have seldom practiced it, but one way of removing a curse is to place a full, clear glass of water on a surface, by itself.
When you set it down, ask with candor that you wish a curse you may believe has been placed on you. Concentrate when you ask this question. Do not be distracted by anything while asking for this favour.
Then go about your ways and allow the glass with the water inside it to set for a few days.
After a few days, take the glass of water, (do not let the water spill on you, (nor do you touch it!) Just carefully, without spilling the water, take it to the sink and pour it down, then allow faucet to run over the expelled water for a minute or so.
Do not let the water which had filled the glass completely evaporate.As you pour the bad water down the sink, concentrate again, and think it or say it out loud : The curse has been broken. I am getting rid of it through the water in the glass which cleansed it.
Wash the glass which held the water very well and put it away.
Then, in replacement of the glass of water on the solitary surface it had been, place a votive candle, (WHITE) - light it in a little votive glass until it COMPLETELY expires.
When you light the candle concentrate on the transfer of what was bad to Good.
When the candle expires, give thanks and ask that the completion of the removal of the curse has taken place . . and there exists NO MORE of the curse upon you.
I hope this helps!
Grace.

Answer 4

I know this is serious, and I know you're not crazy. You have other good suggestions above, and this is mine. I think just the shopping and work can make a person feel better. Besides, it's good to have choices.

Spring cleaning time, honey, and there's a few days left of spring. This is American Southern Vodoun purification, adapted. (They wouldn't have had Play-Doh.)

Shopping list:
*New broom (The Swiffer won't work here)
*New dustpan
*Florida water (You can get this at a Wal-Mart or Target, placed with the after-bath body mists. Also in "ethnic" grocery stores and botanicas.)
*Play*Doh or some other sticky substance. You can use color magick and get, say, white for peace or green for prosperity.
*Honey

Take the Florida water and anoint the new broom bristles and dustpan with it. Announce that you are going to remove the bad old energy and the curse from the house. Sweep your house ceiling to floor, front to back, left to right. Get *all* the dust, cobwebs, crumbs, etc. You're saving them.

Now, spread the Play-Doh out on the counter and mix in a few more drops of Florida water and some honey. I get "bear" bottles and would put in up to the bear's neck, but use what you will. Knead it like bread dough, spread out again.

"Let sweetness overpower the bad old things." Add the dust and crap to it. Knead again. (YES, this will feel gross. You're washable!) Roll into a ball.

Now, take that ball of dust and crap, wrap it in some wax paper or something, drop it into the nearest body of water, and drive or walk OFF! Don't look back!

Answer 5

The best way that I have found uses the following:
1 white taper candle\
a bowl of fresh water

Attach a heavy candle holder (small one) on the bottom of your candle so it will stand upright in the middle of your bowl of water. During the dark moon and in the evening set up the candle in the bowl in a room where you won't be disturbed. Meditate and center yourself then light the candle. Now concentrate on the curse, think of the person who put it on you and what it has done to your life and family. Do this concentrating until the candle burns down and puts itself out in the water. Take the candle stub thats left and the bowl of water outside and bury the candle stub somewhere off of your property and dump the water either in a running stream or down the sink throughly washing it away. Then don't worry about the curse any longer. It is gone but thinking about it alot after you have banished it will give it energy to continue to some degree. This banishing doesn't seem to bring on extra Karma to the one who cursed but because they cursed you they will have some Karma to deal with just because they choose to curse. This alone brings on bad Karma. You can also burn Dill weed in your house for a couple of days for some extra banishing power. Giving your home a good cleaning will help get rid of any negative energies left behind as well. Good luck. there are other things that can be done but this is the best I have found so far.

Answer 6

Hi there, it is difficult to lose a friend. To remove the curse, place a mirror in front of you, push all of your energy and aura into the mirror, be sure you do this in a strong protection circle, after this put the mirror into a vat of salt water. try to use sea salt. Just a dip should cleanse your energy and should break any negativity that is connected to your energy or aura. Afterward, release the energy from the mirror and take it back into yourself, then you can close your circle, but definitely not before. Good luck!!! Let me know if you have any questions.

Answer 7

If you believe it will work then it will. Curses tend to be simpathetic magick and as long as you believe that your friend did this then the course will continue. I for one would dump this "friend" because she is taking advantage of simple bad luck.

You can always do a bit of mirror magick where you gather up any ill energy directed your way and return it to the sender.

I for one give no one power over me, so until I get struck dead by someone then I won't believe in their strength over me. I be one bad mama jama Witch. A legend in my own mind!

Good luck.

Answer 8

First of all, I don't think that you are crazy. I think that you need help...let me look in some of my books and let me see if I can guide you in any way...first of all, I am sure that you are aware that you need to make the spell your own by changing it in the way that you need to make it your own spell..Let me now look and blessed be.

EDIT: What I would do if I were you is to protect yourself against negative influences...Not at your friend, but at the universe in general..in essence doing a purification ritual which protects you and your family. There are two very good rituals in the "Practical Candleburning Rituals" by Raymond Buckland. One is on page, 43 and it is "To protect against evil, to "uncross" a person"..and the other is on page 77 and it is "To change ones luck"

Keep in mind that what your friend sent out will return to her 3 times 3. She did not do it out of love, she did it for revenge. What ever happens to her is not of your doing. She did it to herself. Magick is nothing to play around with and she will be burned because of her actions.

Blessed Be.

Answer 9

Before I accepted Jesus into my life, I too fell into a trap that was presented to me by a friend I met and worked with in Los Angeles..
Before too long, I found out that she was a witch...At first I thought it was cool, I was really young then, and then I saw the "dark side" of it all...........
When I stopped being her friend, she too put a curse on me..
In a 24 hour period, my house caught fire and although it was put out in time, everything was soaked with water and white foam, my car that had just had the tranny fixed was knocked 30 feet in reverse (it was parked outside my house) by a head on collision, and some other things I don't want to say...My point is, until I was reborn again, and became a Christian, I was not able to move forward..there is a battle of good and evil that we can't see...how much power other people have over you is determined by you..you need Christ Jesus to be on your side..he is the only one that can break this bond..
All you have to do is ask him to come into your life, and mean it...I pray that you'll see the light and come out of the darkness that has trapped you....God Bless you!

Answer 10

I am not saying that I don't believe you, but what kind of friend would put a curse on you.

And if she did, cant you ask her to remove it?