i m goin to turn 15 this july. but i have been thinking alot about when i move out and it has been very depressing. i dont want to leave home and i dont know what my mom well do. she also has two younger kids 5, 8. but my mom and me hang out alot. i have been throwing up in the morning for the last week because of thinking about this. m i just carzy. what do u thik about it.
2007-06-20 05:23:05 · 7 answers · asked by hotness 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
cuz i well be 18 in 3 years and people move out when they turn 18.
2007-06-20 05:30:23 · update #1
because living with my mom is the only life i know. i love my mom alot i never had alot of friends to hang out with. people thought i was out going because i was handsome or whatever. but ten they saw that i didnt have alot of friends. my mom is my best friend. and i dont know i life without living with my mom.
2007-06-20 05:49:37 · update #2
You probably need to discover why you are worried about this? What is your deeper worry? Do you think your mom will need your support? Have you discussed this with your mom? It doesn't seem normal that a 15-year-old kid would have such a heavy weight on their shoulders. I think you need to talk to someone older, maybe your doctor or school counselor, or your pastor.
2007-06-20 05:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying and talk to your mom about it. Not all kids move out when they are 18. My son is 24 and still lives at home to save money since he works part time and goes to college. Aside from that, kids change a lot between 15 and 18. Think about moving or not moving when you are closer to 18 and enjoy your summer now.
2007-06-20 12:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by petra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about 3 years from now, enjoy your mom and siblings and your youth. It sounds like your family is very close, stay at home for as long as you can/need. You don't have to move at 18, that just what society says to do, listen to your heart. And home is where the heart is.
2007-06-20 12:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no rule that says you have to move out when you're 18 but you may be ready by then. if you're not, then stay living with mom and go to college. the choice will be yours then; don't sweat it now.
2007-06-20 12:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Emma B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry !its OK to have this type of feelings but is going to be OK you don't have to move out when you're 18 if you're parents are ok with it.you're still young to think about this don't worry you'll feel better as you going with life !enjoy!
2007-06-20 13:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to move out?
That doesn't mean you have to move out. I didn't move out until I was 25. Many asian families children live with their partents until they die. There's no rule that says you have to.
2007-06-20 12:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by LG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your mother is throwing you out,you don't have to move,so what's the problem?Calm down.
2007-06-20 12:46:29 · answer #7 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋