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I hate living in this life of lies.I'm not blaming Lord,i just wanna escape from this reality. Can i? The only way i can see him and ask him why. I don't want to wait till its my time to go. The way i feel ,its eating me inside.

2007-06-20 03:49:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

I'm catholic

2007-06-20 03:59:55 · update #1

18 answers

Only God knows what is truly in your heart and only god can judge you.

If you are truly depressed and having these thoughts please call and get help.

Suicide is not the answer.

2007-06-20 03:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I'm sorry to hear your life is not going well for you right now. But, please try to look past what is bringing you down today and see yourself on the otherside of these problems feeling relieved and happy to enter into a new chapter of your life. Unless you are terminally ill, there's always hope for a better tomorrow. But to answer your question more directly.....only Catholics believe that suicide is an automatic ticket to hell. I'm an atheist and believe in neither heaven nor hell. What lies beyond the grave is truly a mystery. From the research done so far on death I've read, there are a couple of possibilities that I entertain as a theory...#1. When we die, that's it, lights out and everything that makes you you is gone. #2. The energy that all living things have inside leaves the body at the point of death, it could be nothing more than static created by the blood rushing through our veins. But, if who we are survives somehow inside this energy, maybe it gets recycled or drifts off into space. We really don't know. Religious people will tell you they know this or that for sure. But honestly, no one really knows if death is anything more for us than simply turning off a switch on your future. I will never kill myself unless terminally ill and in great pain, because I want to experience all of the good, bad, weird, funny, hot, cuddley moments life has to offer. :) Feel better soon.

2007-06-20 11:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by RealRachel 4 · 0 0

You are the temple of the living God and to do something to yourself like suicide is from the enemy. I rebuke that spirit of suicide from you and that the spirit of peace and mercy come to you.
You say you hate this life of lies.....are you the ones that's lying? If you are stop, you don't have to lie anymore, just ask God to forgive you and whatever has happened in your life and He will you can start all over brand new [-:
If you are living an environment of lies than move, you don't have to live there, change. There is certainly evil in this life, for everyone, darkness will increase, but you have light in you and the light that is in you is increasing if you keep seeking, asking and knocking for God. Read John, Ephesian, and Corinthians.
You are truly loved no matter what you've done and can still have a better life AS you TRUST Jesus and continue to LIVE. Night only last for a while and then comes the MORNING and the light comes brighter and brighter.....so hang in there! It's going to get better {-:

2007-06-20 11:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Besty boop 2 · 0 0

God alone is the giver and taker of life. We, no matter how bad it gets, should never usurp His authority. The Lord created you for a purpose unlike mine or any one else who lives or will ever live. You are uniquely made, 1, and you need to rise up and remember that if you are a true Christian. Christians stand and fight against the world and its many evils. We will not bow, hide, or be a whimp to all its evil doings. God did not make a Christian weak. A person is only weak when they lean on their own understanding instead of leaning on and trusting in the Lord. Suicide should never be an option if you want to be found faithful.

2007-06-20 11:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by HeVn Bd 4 · 1 0

Hon, I am not your judge, neither are any of these other people. However, I have been in your shoes. When I have been suicidal, I think about how it will affect those I love and who love me. Please go to a psychiatrist. These are not normal thoughts. I know this world can be hard to live in at times. However, things change in time. We all have good times and bad. I don't know what is going on with you. However, I would really like to talk with you. If you are in a bad situation, GET OUT. Some suggestions in case you don't contact me. Do something just for you, get out of the house, in sunlight, exercise, eat right (6 small well balanced portions a day), go do different activities, meet different people, talk to old friends and family. Study and apply positive thinking. All of this will change, in God's time, not our own. If you want to talk e mail me

annshphrd@yahoo.com

2007-06-20 11:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ann S 4 · 1 0

Don't forget the Israelites wandered through the dry barren dessert with nothing good to eat and nothing good about their lives for 40 years before entering the promised land. You are just in a dessert right now. Have faith and God will get you out of it and when you look back you'll see why He had you go thru it. Don't give up!

2007-06-20 10:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

There is no one there to ask. You are life energy alive in cells!! God is everywhere, in everything. You must think for years before making a decision about that. Dont do it.. here is why...

Life is a gift. Even with bad things happening. we have an important job here to balance the bad things with good things.

You may not have a second chance.
You may get stuck in a place or dimension you hate.
You may miss the most important moment of your life that you do not know about yet.
You will be remembered as weak and selfish. We all have problems. big ones. That may be the reason you are here.

It is like this: an actor is sent by his rich uncle to L.A. to get a BIG job in a movie and the reason for the trip is a suprise!!! What if the actor cannot reach LA because of problems, and he complains the whole way?
And he finally does make it there but since he does not know why he was sent, he decides to return home. HE MISSES the whole point of his life.

The purpose of life may be to LIVE it. To FEEL it. good or bad.

You give life strength. You must have someone that loves you and if you dont think you do, You may not know what is in the future. Dont do it to finally be with god. that may not happen.

Seek help to understand. read about it. I told myself once that I would think about scuicide for a year, and if I still felt the same, I was going to do it. I did not feel the same a year later!!!

also you may have a medical problem or imbalance of hormones causing you to feel this way. Ask for help. Dont do it because you dont' know yet. simple. please!!! respond to me by my profile and we can talk more if you want

Please watch this video and tell yourself you will think about it for ONE more year. Look at the beauty in life and not the things that make you want to give up :)) peace to your heart. love from Oregon.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5P6UU6m3cqk

2007-06-20 11:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by omni4tress 3 · 0 1

I had a friend who committed suicide. My first thought is how selfish it was. . .if he could have seen how hurt his little brother was, his family and all his friends. He had gotten lost in the world of drugs and was getting into trouble with the law. . .and unfortunately he saw no way out but death. . .sigh . . .it still hurts today. If people could only realize that "this too shall pass". . .we go through rough times, but we don't have to stay there. . .learn from it and move above it.

2007-06-20 10:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles9 6 · 1 0

I'm sorry, but the Lion of Judah is wrong. Suicide is like unto murder. You are taking human life without cause or justification. Much of what we are judged on depends on what we knew when we did it. Thus, if you were raised without law and your survival depended upon your ability to kill your enemies, then Christ will take that into account when it comes time for your judgment. If however, you were raised with the law of Christ, that teaches us to love one another, and you choose to take it upon yourself to end a life, then you will be judged accordingly. The very fact that you are able to ask this question is testimony that you know it is wrong. If, therefore, you carry out your idea, and cut short your own life, forgiveness will be hard to find. You will go to spirit prison to learn the consequences of your action, to mourn your loss, and perhaps to seek forgiveness. I am not the judge, I'm grateful for that, but these comments are generalizations based upon scriptural input.
Please do not carry out your idea. Life is precious and we can learn to live with the evils of our day when we call upon God in the name of Christ for guidance and comfort.
Murder is unforgiveable and so is suicide. However, Christ knows how to look upon the particular circumstances that we may be unaware of. I have a nephew that took his own life due in part to anti-depressant drugs that really messed up his mental status. I don't think he will be judged as harshly because he was not really in control of himself while under the influence of the prescriptions that had been given to him. I think he will be forgiven and perhaps his doctors will have to answer for their bad prescriptions. Their defence will be that they didn't know any better either. They were trying to follow medical standards of their day, although that could be disputed in court based upon what I have been told about the case.
I digress. You know better, don't do it.

2007-06-20 11:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by rac 7 · 0 1

You will be forgiven, but it is not what God wants. He wants you to see it through, lean on him, and make it. He wants you to realize the hurt you will bring others. You are not in your right mind at this moment. You are hurting and you need to get some help. Go to a church with professional counseling and let God heal your heart. I will pray for you.

2007-06-20 11:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 0 1

Just hold on man. Carry out God's will with your life and you will feel a lot better. IF you help other people and focuss on other people more you will be happy as well.

2007-06-20 10:57:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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