.. but i think we are like best friends... the sexual stuff is just what makes us a good couple... .. what do i do...
2007-06-20 02:56:13 · 14 answers · asked by Scarlet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says he still loves me... he wanted to take a break to make sure its not just sexual
2007-06-20 03:04:06 · update #1
talk to him ask him why does he feel this way communication is the biggest thing in a relationship if you are under 18 please do not have sex it is way too difficult and builds attachments in women
Maybe you need to plan a project together go camping out of town go bowling with friends try not having sex for a week or so
2007-06-20 02:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is realize All people see things from their own perspective........his reality is not your reality.....So in his
way of thinking you are a sexual partner and not
actually a couple or lovers or his girlfriend............There is a big difference
and
you can't put your perceptions or desires on him to change
what he feels about it. The only change to be had is
the way in which you inner act in the relationship, then the relationship will become something different.
2007-06-20 03:10:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why he thinks this first of all. If he does in fact only think of you in that way maybe he is not emotionally invested into this relationship like it sounds like you are. If you are not on the same page then I think it's not fair for either one of you. Someone is going to get hut and usually it's the person who feels the emotional conection not the physical.
2007-06-20 03:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away fast. What he means is you are a good lay but he dont want to make a commitment to you. He sees you as an object not a person. If your relationship is just sexual it means he feels free to make deeper connections with. You are a booty call not his girlfriend. You are going to get hurt if you continue with him. Good luck.
2007-06-20 03:01:29 · answer #4 · answered by ninia1968 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing other things.. dinner, movies etc. Hold back on the sex for a minute. We have to bend a Little to make them happy. Give him what he wants he may find out it was better the way it was.
2007-06-20 03:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by KORIN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm scratching my head on this one. It sounds like you may be eluding yourself about the relationship. if he feels that your relationship is only sexual, then you're probably not a real couple anyway.
2007-06-20 03:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by renamed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to tell him to be slow in the sexual stuff cause actually what you have said its true and he should also rememberabout HIV.But you should try to respect him and you say no where necessary cause i know u love him.
2007-06-20 03:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by matovu ibrahim.lukoptet 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he is interested only in sex. If that's all that makes you a good couple you both have a lot to learn
2007-06-20 03:01:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dumped a girl due to this. I was not emotionally connecting with her... Only physically. And I got sick of it. Make him see that there is more to you than sex.
2007-06-20 03:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and show him love that isn't just sexual. SHOW him you are not JUST about sex.
2007-06-20 03:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋