my ex keeps on coming up to me and expecting me to talk to him even though iv told him i don't want anything to do with him anymore...it lasted 3months but only cos i didnt have the confidence to break up with him (i hated him after 2 days!!!!)
I never kissed him or anything and avoided him wheneva possible but hes desperate for attention from me and ITS ANNOYING -im still in school and im not interested in a serious relationship wiv anyone-he expects me to fall in love with him but I HATE HIM!!!!!!
2007-06-20 01:52:49 · 25 answers · asked by flipin_mentalzar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
report him to the police he is an odd ball
2007-06-20 01:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks you are not serious about him staying away and you are playing hard to get. Stand straight in front of him, look him in the eyes and tell him to go away and leave you alone and then walk away. Don't smile or laugh. He'll get the message after that. Alternatively if that doesn't work tell him you like him like a brother - men hate that!
2007-06-20 08:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by Charlene 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that! Sounds mean but the only way to get him to understand is to put the truth in his face.. just say nicely.. I really can't stand you and i wish that you would just leave me alone Please! Hopefully then he will back off- Sounds like you are being really nice about all of this and Im proud of you for that-- But my ex I broke up with him 2 years ago and he's still calling me and I just tell him , I want nothing to do with you and I want you to leave me alone- and al he does is say stupid things like oo i love it when your fiesty! But im hopeing your guy friend isn't as creepy as my ex on that kind of situation! LOL Good Luck!
2007-06-20 08:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez guys what a bunch of freaks!!! Lets face it hes following you around its like worship or something, but he thinks your the answer!!! sorry your not : ( and some girsl think guys are the answer, sorry guys : ( your not. when. Just call the police tell them its harrasment, thats if hes not at school, if he is at school just tell him what you think, or get him to do stupid stuff, it will be well fun, say to him, if you love me youll dance on the head masters desk, or roll around on the dinner table with the food on it : ) jsut keep thinking of rubbish like that, when he seees you dont take him seriously hell get annoyed and leave you alone.
2007-06-20 16:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Partisan of Christ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your still very young and sound very young he doesn't sound like an ex sounds more like your loving the attention of someone running you down and begging you for the attention try growing up alittle and just ignore the BOY as you sound like a little GIRL to me. the school as teachers mentors for you to talk to I'm sure you've told your friends that you hate him im sure he knows maybe what goes around comes around shouldn't play with people hearts.
2007-06-20 09:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a real creep, What I would do is get a new boyfriend and see what he thinks about that, He might have some bet going with his mates if he wont leave you alone when its obvious you hate him, Get a new lad a get off with him in his face, good look
2007-06-20 09:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by xhelenx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a restraining order doesn't do anything..
The guy is still confused, all he see and think about is you. Tell him that you are really not ready to return to the dating world, all you want to do is concentrate on your studies. Tell him to move on and find someone better for him.
If he keeps it up you should tell your teachers about it. They'll know what to do.
2007-06-20 09:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by deadbird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont answer his calls , dont meet up with him just act like he does not exist and his pride will tell him to leave you if all else fails just tell him calmly and politely you are not interested treat him how you would want to be treated if the shoe were on the other foot. Good luck!
2007-06-20 09:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get the police or your father or brother to have a word with him. That might scare him off.
If that doesn't work, you may need a protection order against him. You don't have to put up with this, so don't suffer in silence. Take action.
2007-06-20 08:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nasty piece of work.
It's not nice playing with peoples hearts you know.
Leading him on for three months even though you didn't like him from day 2 is bad behaviour.
You should have broke it off on day 2 then.
Now you are paying the consequences.
2007-06-20 08:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't seek him out, but the next time he does it, tell him to leave you alone or you will tell the school authorities and, if necessary, the police. And mean it -- you cannot show even one moment of hesitation or change your mind in the slightest. Then if necessary, act on your threat. "Say what you mean, and mean what you say."
2007-06-20 08:58:06 · answer #11 · answered by CarlisleGirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋