I really like this girl I met on orkut,she needed a tarot card reading and I gave her one.from that time I fell in love with her and want her.we did not see each other but will soon.she just got out of a relationship and thinks that love is just a waste of time.how do I get her to accept me? I did not tell it to her because she is not completely out of the past experiencs of bytrayal.
2007-06-20 01:51:08 · 9 answers · asked by raoul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pain is never fun, and she may be hesitant about being with you. If she is distant, you are going to have to work twice as hard to get her, and three times as hard to reel her in.
Constantly prove to her that you are better than the other guy, and avoid inadvertently hurting her. Take her places, spoil her with a little gift each time you see her, and constantly let her know you care.
Show her that love is not a waste, and prove it to her. It will take time, and don't jump in right away. Begin being friendly, and then work on bringing her to you.
2007-06-20 02:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your really into her,all you can do is be her close friend for now.And then help her to gradually get her life back on track.She will appreciate that.
You should then help her learn to trust again,but this could take sometime,but if you think shes worth the wait then do so.
Otherwise just keep her as a good friend,and something may just blossom down the road for the two of you,but this will be ok,as you won't be wondering and pining over her as you where friends all along.
2007-06-20 01:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant fall in love with someone by giving them one tarot card reading. you have got to spend time with the person and really get to know them before you can fall in love with them.
since she just got out of a relationship i would not pursue her cause she has some major issues that she needs to work through in her life first.
2007-06-20 01:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're in love with a girl you have never met? That could be a recipe for another disaster.
2007-06-20 01:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to just be yourself if you want her to accept you. Don't try to hard and don't be a bug a boo. We hate that. Definitely be her friend first, you don't want to be a rebound.
2007-06-20 01:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need help from an expert, you're not going to find expert advice on yahoo answers. get a councelor.
2007-06-20 01:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you can read tarot cards can't you tell what's going to (or not going to) happen between you two...??
2007-06-20 01:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u cant make her accept you give me a break...she'll either love u or wont.
2007-06-20 01:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So her you care about her, if you really do do not give up!!!
2007-06-20 01:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋