we do everything together. i'm afraid that she doesn't want to get involved with me yet as i have just filed for divorce with my ex, but at the same time she permisses me to sleep over at her house, on a different bed, when she sleeps necked! we dp EVERYTHIN TOgether and so the compatability is there, i've just been taking it slow. we haven't even held hands. she told me to never ever talk to my ex again and to file asap, which i have. why is she just wanting to be friends? it's driving me nuts. if i just stop calling her for a while, would she miss me to a point that she'd think that she is loosing me and will want more? p.s. ignore the avatar, it's not my p.c. any serious advice would be helpful. also she runs around her living room with just her underwear on in front of me and it drives me crazy as i am not a barbarian. she also knows that i'm buying her an expensive necklace next week made by a designer who makes then from real flowers and clear acrylic paint for protection
2007-06-20 01:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, we have so much in common that it's scary and neither one of us is dating anybody. but i can't help to think that maybe she's not the type to get in the middle of a divorcing man
2007-06-20 01:28:34 · update #1
She wants to take it slow.
But what is sleeping "necked"? I assume "naked"?
2007-06-20 01:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she's leading you on. Any woman who walks around half naked when a "friend" is over is playing mind games with you. But here is a question for you: Why on earth are you going to buy her an expensive present???? She is NOT your girlfriend!!! If you begin showering her with gifts, you will be setting the tone for the rest of this "relationship" - she will continue to control you and tell you what to do without actually committing to you, and you will continue to be her lap dog. Enough already. Move on!
2007-06-20 08:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by tooblessed2doubt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont get the necklace. However it is your life and money so do what you want. Let things cool down with the X before you jump in to anything else. You need to give your self time.
2007-06-20 08:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by ohiostate114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she is adamant about you getting a divorce and doesn't want it to go any farther until that is final. Technically right now you are someone elses husband whether you are with your wife or not you are legally married and that is considered adultry if she sleeps with you or takes it any farther knowing that you are married
2007-06-20 08:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some [eople just want to take time try not to rush things has it could all be ruined too quickly.
the worse kind of people leading you on are the ones who want want want all the time and never happy with what's going on.
2007-06-20 08:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by deborah b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when women play with men's feelings, and that's exactly what it sounds like to me.
From what you've written it seems like she just wants you to want her and that's basically it. She's definitely teasing you, she insisted that you end your last relationship... doesn't that sit a little funny with you? I really feel like she's just playing with your emotions and leading you on. Sounds kind of like a high school stunt, doesn't it?
2007-06-20 08:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not leading you on
She doesn't want to get hurt. It's as simple as that.
Stay away from the expensive gifts for awhile....
2007-06-20 08:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my guess, she is kinda of leading you on, maybe she does care about you you but i don't think she loves you, she just loves the way you worship and spoil her, take my advice you should sit down with her and ask her where does she wanna go with this realationship like what does she feel about it.
2007-06-20 08:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by BOOTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like she is trying to get your attention by prancing around naked and half naked. if i was you i'd try to get with her. especially if she was running around in her underwear in the living room thats just hot your one lucky guy if you get tosee that but now all you have to do is the first move.
2007-06-20 08:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by CRASH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an odd situation. But, it does sound like she's interested in you. I would try and see if she wants more....
2007-06-20 08:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Manhan32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's teasing you. She wants the necklace but she may not want you.
2007-06-20 08:28:07 · answer #11 · answered by identitynumber7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋