I have suspicions that my new boyfriend has another girlfriend. I don't have enough room to type the whole situation out, but he's been acting all avoidy and weird, and was apparently sick all last week and had to go to the hospital and everything, so he couldn't hang out. Also, I am not allowed to go to his apartment because his name isn't on the lease and apparently his psychotic female roommate won't let him have any girls over. So anyways, we were supposed to hang out Monday night, but I got a call from him and he said that he couldn't because his dad was having surgery the next day and he was going to have to visit him. (I live about 40 minutes away and he was just going to stay the night) I was getting fed up with his crap, and told him we needed to talk. Now he is claiming that his dad went into shock during surgery and is now in a coma. Is this believable? Should I trust him? Would a guy actually lie about this if he thought you were going to break up with him???
2007-06-20 01:16:47 · 20 answers · asked by alli8188 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you say that's your new bf, I'd have to say that You are His other gf
2007-06-20 01:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that, it sounds so dramatic and unbelievable. Maybe some of it is true but not all, and I don't think that's his roommate, it's most likely his girlfriend. Please, ' I am not allowed to go to his apartment because his name isn't on the lease and apparently his psychotic female roommate won't let him have any girls over' THAT is SUCH a lie. And if it's not why would you want to be with someone in a stupid situation like that?
2007-06-20 01:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Low Pro 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm, "psychotic female roommate?" oh you mean the wife? (or live-in girlfriend).
very simple to call the hospital and verify dad is there (and in a coma). if dad is indeed there in a coma then shame on you for being so suspicious, but no big. i'm thinking this guy is tryin' to play you. you think that as well, prolly things you're not saying.
2007-06-21 10:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello! :)
I think that you should have a talk with him to clarify things.. However, you should not tell him that you have something to talk to him about, cos he would think that you want to end the relationship.
Maybe you should take things slowly.. What if his father is really in a coma? Be tactful with what you say to him.. you could realy hurt him..
Ask him out for a drink, say that you are concerned about him and his family and you that you missed him and wanna see him.. So when he goes out with you, you can take that chance to clarify things, just be very tactful just in case what he told you was actually the truth.
2007-06-20 01:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by deadbird 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While the situation is a little odd and his actions are questionable. It would be a very low thing to do to lie about THAT. Ask to go with him to see his dad or find a way to prove the situation. If you find out he's lying, leave him and do it IMMEDIATELY. If there's truth, maybe things are just rough right now.
2007-06-20 01:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Radley 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hello dear friend:
I want to tell, you know what you really want the important think it that is no only to get a relationship the one moment you can be honest with him and told him what you really feeling, i know he will be understand that no mean break up and if he start making a problem is better to stay like friendship, you can say you are no feel sure what he is doing, explain the why remember the important think is tell how you are feeling and ask him how he is feeling with you i know for sure you know how to do it, if you any help let me know i will be help you
Your friend Erik
2007-06-20 02:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by ERIK H DUNCAN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the hospital and tell them your family, If his dad's not there, OH BOY would he be in trouble, Give him the benefit, But if pops isn't in coma he's busted and a real lowlife for lieing like that,
2007-06-20 01:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by TE 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy way to check: tell him you're sorry his dad is so ill. Offer to accompany your friend to the hospital on a visit. If he says non family members aren't allowed offer to sit in the coffee shop until he's done with his visit. If he starts changing his story then you know he's making it up.
2007-06-20 01:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by identitynumber7 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's fulla more shet than a Christmas turkey to me, but I'm just a guy that's been around the world a few times...I suppose there are still things I haven't seen before!
2007-06-20 01:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm. Does sound suspicious. Is there a way to find of if any of this is true though before you jump to conclusions? Like call the hospital (as for someone under his name)?
2007-06-20 01:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is all of the possible yes...would I believe it NO his roomate is his girlfriend...open your eyes he is paying you that is why you can't go to his apartment and he can only hang out with you when it is convient for him....find someone else because this guy is playing games with you
2007-06-20 01:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋