Where to sock this punk kid at school.?

Question

Im 15 and at school there is this one kid which i am farely cool with but hes always punking on littler kids, and well the kid is a little *****! And i have told this to kis face and he did nothing, but if i see him try too punk someone again im lieable to hit him. I just need to know if i should just clock him in the jaw from the side outa no where. Or when he is punking the kid go over and tell him to come down and if it escalates into something maybe a shove followed by a jab and a cross maybe? Where to hit em?

First of all I would neer run up and kick someone in the nads or take a really cheap, cheap shot. But if i go up to him tell him to calm the **** down. And he maybe ignores me in say way, shape or form then i would just start throwing.


The kid is a little punk himself. I myself am a cool person, lots of friends no need to go and punk the less cool to make myself feel better. All of you have probably met one of these kids in ur life. Also would it be cool to push him he turns toward me just give him a straight right then maybe if he gets dazed hapefully doesnt fall give him a good knee to the chin.



There is a down fall too all of this. He is black and well when one black person fights.......a clan follows. But i will be sure to have a friends there. Most likely the one that boxes and the one thats been competing in mixed matrial arts for 8 years.

The kids he picks own are the kids with no back bones and its ****** up when they get called a litle fag, *****, punk. Im not trying to be a superhero but most of these people he picks on are kids that i know talked too sometimes.

For all i know this kid can fight. But i seriously dont think so. He is one of those loud mouth (not to be racist, Read at bottom) ********. Who go around trying to punk everyone acting like they are hardcore.


***There is a difference between a black person and a ******.

*A black person is a reg person with diff color skin. Thats acts normal.

A ****** is a loud mouth black person who feels the need to act out in a angry, annoying, sometimes intimadateing fashion.


I myself thinks the color of skin has nothing to do with who you are. Though you are who you are skin in no way should define you or your actions. your actions define you.

Answer 1

I had plenty of experience with dealing with bullies in school.

If you say that you are on cool terms with this kid then approach him and put him on notice. If he does not stop beating up others HE will have to start going through you and see how he responds.

IT is always best to try to avoid throwing any strikes if possible. If in talking with him he picks a fight with you then of course defend yourself but try your best to talk him out of his ways by sticking up for the others.

Many times just a confrontation is all you need to settle a bully down for most are just whimps themselves acting like bullies to keep others away from them.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Violence is always the last resort. Use your best muscle. . .your brain.
I taught FSKA Shotokan Karate and would always tell my students, "never fight with your words".
But I also believe in protecting your friends! So there are a lot of things you can do BEFORE you throw a punch; Tell the guy, "that's not cool" or just say "leave him alone" or I'd pull him away. If the kid is picking on someone then he's got an insecurity issue. Have him take a Martial Arts class. Maybe you should take one too. But take a class with a guy who teaches the build up of your character and not just how to hurt someone.
Telling the school teacher is always a better option too.
If you really have to fight and protect yourself or others then you should learn how do that in a martial class and not over the net. Pulling him off a kid or pushing him away will be more effective than punching him.
I hope this help and I'm glad you care about the other kids.

Answer 3

Fighting and violence should always be the last resort. You must always consider the consequences of what coming to blows will bring. Apparently this guy at school that punks little kids is getting away with it. If you've exhausted diplomatic avenues then I agree, a good butt stomping is in order. Where do you punch this guy? Punch him in the nose hard when he's picking on one of the younger kids. Your next move will depend on his reaction. If he wants to go to fist city take him on a first class tour. If he stops make him apologize and promise not to be a bully in the future. If he does it again just beat the hell out of him.

Answer 4

Being a martial artist myself, I feel like I have to put my two cents in here.

Before you do any *** kicking, think about these three things.

1. Are you really just using this as an excuse to beat up somebody who is weaker than you? Ask yourself what your true agenda is.

2. By stepping into a situation like this, you rob the smaller kids the chance to improve themselves or learn the hard knocks of life. Sometimes getting pushed around is what makes some one want to better themselves. If you really wanted to help these little guys, show them how to stick up for themselves. Empower them to not be punked out by some bully.

3. Unless you are in a life and death situation, don't throw the first punch. It'll get you in trouble and it's a bad practice. If you really feel like you have to step in, punk him out. Get in his face, put your body into his space so he feels uncomfortable, intimidate him and tell him to stop picking on the smaller kids our you'll kick his ***. Just punk him out with out striking. If he gets mad and attacks, then you can kick him in crotch and then punch him right on the nose. Then push him to the ground. That stops a lot of people.

It is great that you have compassion for the weak and you show honor with your desire to help them. Cultivate that and you will go far. Save your fighting for a real emergency though.

Answer 5

You already did what you had to, you confronted him, and he didn't fight.
You are not spider-man, captain american, or any superhero from a comic book, stop finding excuses to pick a fight, you are not the defender of the weak.
It's up to the people he picks on to stand up to him, not you, unless one of them is friend or little brother.
If he tried to fight YOU, then hit him in the jaw or nose.

Once again, don't look for reasons to start a fight, only do so if he wants to fight YOU, not some other kid (unless it's a friend or relative)

good luck!

Answer 6

In my school, I make it clear that while you earn the right to wear a belt, the belts themselves belong to me.

Were I your instructor, I would be taking back whatever belt I last awarded you. You have clearly been done an injustice in your teaching if you think your proposed solution is the answer.

Indeed, I'd be taking back belts from most of the people who responded to your post.

That said, no one here (who suggested a spot to strike) got it right, and nearly everyone also misunderstands that the goal is not to fight, but to win. Pity there are so many pretenders here.

EDIT: After reading your updated details, I decided you deserve a brand-new Abuse Report. Congratulations.

Answer 7

You could do what these others mention - or you could take the high road. Confront the jerk, tell him off in front of the kid he's punking, make him look like the foolish bully he is, then walk away. If he wants to fight, I prefer feet (they usually can strike from farther away than punches), but either way, he'll have started it so it becomes self-defense.

Of course, you could always talk to one of your teachers... I know, how "uncool".

Answer 8

You are asking whether you should bully him into stopping his bullying. Think about it! Does that sound like the right way to handle the situation to you?

He has issues. Be his friend and help him deal with the problems that are causing the bad behavior. That's what a friend does.

Answer 9

Tsk, fighting is not the answer, besides you did say you two were cool.....wait... did you say he "PUNKS" other kids? Does his name happen to be Ashton? Last name Kutchner? If it is, then that's a different story altogether, my advice would be to just walk up behind him while he's busy with the other kids and give him an omellete kick(you know, break his eggs) then stomp on him hard several times, unzip your pants and pee on him. You can even spit on him for good measure. Good luck and tell me bout it after you've successfully stomped Ashton's face to the ground.

Answer 10

Tell the parents of the victims. Tell them where this bully lives, so they will go round and speak to his parents. Nothing sh*ts up a bully more than getting told off by their folks, especially when the victim and his/her parents are there. For greater effect get several groups of parents to go round at the same time.