I sit here all day, doing nothing. I can't remember the last time I got laid(actually it was about 2 years ago). I don't think i'll ever find a girl with the same interest as me and even if I did, she'd take one look at me and run for the hills! I can barely work because of my sclerosis and overall depression. I just generally hate public and the people around here. Any help for getting a life here?
2007-06-19 18:53:25 · 10 answers · asked by Jeremy H 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey big guy, you need to go to a professional counselor with that depression of yours and find out what the root of it is. You must have some sort of health insurance that you can go through and seek help talking things out and maybe some sort of medications to help you get through this dark cloud of yours. You aren't alone my friend, many of us have depression at one time or another, and when we do, we all hit a brick wall thinking nothing is going right, no one cares, and the world is falling in on us . . . . . . but, trust me, there is light beyond the tunnel, and not all is as black as it seems. I would take one step at a time, baby steps. You aren't going to reverse this overnight, just one thing at a time. First, you need to begin thinking you are worthy, talk things out with a professional, and know there is some woman out there thinking as you do, that no one out there is ever going to notice her. You will eventually find someone. If you have a good heart, women love a good man that is kind and caring. Keep telling yourself you are a good person! Be good to yourself and think I am going to get through this.
Best of luck to you.
2007-06-19 19:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you any mental health professionals in the area? It's not about being "crazy", a purposefully vague term by the by, it's about keeping your mind strong and focused, like one would go to a physician if they had the flu. I say you try a session talking openly about how ya feel and just be yourself with the therapist/counselor.
Also, get a nice shirt and slacks and look for work. Compile a resume and get out there and show your skills. You hopefully will get practice seeing yourself positively and showing others a confident side of you.
2007-06-19 19:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by prezalex87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wheres here? you hate the people around here,help getting a life here. Do you live by yourself? Well first you need help with your depression and coming to terms with your sclerosis before you can live your life you have to come to terms with it and go on. if you are a happy person and fun to be around...people forget the disability and enjoy being around you. So that is my advice help yourself by getting help for your depression.look in your local paper for things to do that you would enjoy. You never know where you will meet someone.....but you have to get happy, because I can tell you are not. I will keep you in my prayers. Good Luck to you!
2007-06-19 19:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by skybludeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live" There are clube. joing a few of them. In Cape the coulsing center has a places we go.We have growing meeting. and a few of us are dating. YOU need to set a few goals for yourself.Are you getting help for your depression? That would be your drist step.Then get yourself a counslor and talk about yourself. You fell not very good looking. But your not. there none that ugly. for your someone sweet child, and most of all God doesn't make ugle people.So the bext time you look in a minor tell yourself what a goodlooking person you are. I hope that you will feel better about yourself very soon.
2007-06-19 19:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to get motivated. You've aready got laided once so you know it's not impossible. Just go on a quest to get laid again, to get back in the groove, to find your mojo. Come on, all you got to do is clean your self up, get a nice hair cut, buy some sweet clothes, and start hitting the clubs. the rest will come even without going to the clubs.
2007-06-19 19:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by saintdrew333 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a look at the free online course on Bach Flower Essences at:
http://floweressencesintro.onlinecourse.com/
and also take a look at:
http://www.hpathy.com/ezine/2007Jan.asp
Scroll down to Alternative - Reiki and see the .ppt file.
I think you will find some good answers.
2007-06-19 19:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess
set sum goals
thinks u want 2 achieve b4 u die
many ppl hav illnesses etc and achieve great things
u may b a lil disadvantaged sure
but when your old your going to regret the things u didnt do and the time u wasted
2007-06-19 19:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you and what kind of work do you do? can you meet people at work ?Try a cruise,3days.volenteer in a hospital,[believe it]. You can help people and people can help you.
2007-06-19 19:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by andy t 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe go out with a friend and hang out somewhere and meet new people
2007-06-19 20:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by Poptart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sell them at Wal*Mart for 2.99....
2007-06-19 18:56:33 · answer #10 · answered by Winne 3 · 0⤊ 8⤋