I love two people at the same time for different but equally profound reasons. I've come to the conclusion the only way to hurt each of them less is to separate myself from both, and see them both casually. I've thought of every other possibility but each one has given me an ultimatum, and I can't stand the idea of not seeing either of them again. Is mine the right decision?
2007-06-19 18:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by holacarinados 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably or Alternatively...a Threesome xD ?
Lol but seriously, my head would be spinning in your situation and im in no position to give advice for this kinda thing but if you feel like thats the best course of action then it's alright....
2007-06-19 18:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tell them both you need some time to sort things out and don't see either one for, say, 3 months. At the end of that 3 months, see which one you miss more and can't imagine your life without. You sound like a smart person, you'll figure it out. But seeing them both is a big mistake because in the event you end up choosing one, he will always wonder if you are sure you made the right choice.
2007-06-20 01:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Someday Soon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your being fair to either... you can't have the best of both worlds.. and in the end you risk loosing everything.....
You have to make some big people decisions and decide... believe me it is one of the hardest things to do and you don't know which is the right decision but you have to do it.
How would you feel if both of them had another person on the go.. who they cared about just as much as they cared about you.
Seeing them casually.... don't know if that will work either... its so hard to change it down a gear.... but will any of you be happy with this and will you be happy when they start moving on...
We can't keep everyone happy and in the end we have to be responsible for our choices.... Good luck... Make a choice and stand by it....
2007-06-20 01:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u need 2 figure out witch 1 u like more i no its hard but u need to and then chose that 1 u will be happy.
2007-06-20 01:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by aprilluvsu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, break off serious relations's with both and date someone else until you decide! You'll see from the distance how they react. If they are overly bitter and angry, your better off with out them :-)
2007-06-20 01:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by califgypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy **** i just spend like 3 minutes trying to figure out an answer to that! i feel sorry for you
2007-06-20 01:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by hOtNsPiCeY91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not.. u gotta be with one of them but make ur decision carefully and weigh the pros and cons ... whats the point of not seeing either one of them... u are entitled to ur happiness and if u can find it with one of them.. why not take the chance..
2007-06-20 01:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing u can do in this situation that is not going to hurt someone in the process.
2007-06-20 01:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by one tuff babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Utah.
2007-06-20 01:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋