well to start with there is a friend of mine .. we knw each other from around 8 mnths..in the beginning she was just a friend but eventually she became part ow my life... i started adoring her.. but on the other side she wasnt ready for a comitment cuz she had a bad experience with her x.. but then she started gettin closern closer to me thatz wat i wanted...n finally 3 dayz back she was in apparment..and she was a bit tensed tryin to make her feel beta i took her in my arms...n then she grabbed me titely ..n i dont know how we started kissin and more i meant not too far but enough ... after that she went n was very upset n was tellin me that we should not meet agn...cuz she feels rong but also feel gud...i tried explainin her that itz ok n i still respect her..she felt a bit better but i dont knw watz in her mind now...i luv her n i want her....pleeez temme wat to to..?
2007-06-19 18:24:08 · 19 answers · asked by elbow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just give it time for her to think about the situation. Evidently, she let her emotions rule what she felt was not yet appropriate actions.
Just continue to reassure her that it does not have to happen again, and that you still respect and care about her. Help her to realize that everyone makes mistakes, she is not a bad person for what she did.
2007-06-19 18:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically girls cannot be able to refuse this type of feelings. But later they will realize it. But they dont hate it , even they need that experience other time. But u r saying that u love her. So just convey ur true love to her. And express ur emotions. If she also love u she will really accept u. But if she need only sex just get out of her dear.
There are many flowers in the garden.
There will be some angel made for u without no bad experience with her X.
Ok.
With love
Ammu
2007-06-20 01:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Madurai Malli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly how you feel, but don't be too aggressive. If she had a bad experience it could frighten her more. If you haven't apologized already, do it. Tell her you two got carried away in the moment or something. Make sure it's true though. If you intended it to go the way it did, then i don't know what to tell you.
If you truly love her, than try to calm her and soothe her feelings. You could talk about good times you two have had. Talk to her and see how she feels about you. You don't want to love someone when they don't love you back. It hurts too much.
2007-06-20 01:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Russki parin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your love express to her, explain clearly your feelings about her. Try to understand her feelings when u r explain u r love. She move positively to you proceed otherwise live her. Don't think for past. past is past. ever success man have a painful story, every painful story successful has a ending. So ready to accept pain & get success in life. Good think for your life and u r lover & u r career. Two parts impartant in our life. Take a right decission at right time & win her heart. Best of luck
2007-06-20 04:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by ebpr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first learn to use real words... and write clearly... cause that looks like my five year old could do better...words like thats and days are spelled with an S not a Z...
as for your girl trouble...give her time... and I suggest while you are giving her time... you use it pay more attention in school...and learn how to communicate the written word properly.
Good Luck
2007-06-20 01:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberlie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd send her an email telling her how you feel. I'm sure the intelligent, witty way with words you seem to have will win her heart.
2007-06-20 01:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rum R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to maintain your relationship for long lasting then you should not get physical till get established, I think you are quite matured to get the hint!
2007-06-20 02:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Gargi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give her a lil space.. try and come to her slowly and ease back in be her friend but let her know when she is ready you would like more, but also let her know you just want her to be happy and dont want to pressure her..
2007-06-20 01:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space and time, everything is so confusing, focus on other issues right now, at this point you cant possible be able to know whatever he is thinking so wait, let time do its job
2007-06-20 01:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as most of us advise give her little time dude
b her gud frnd
try to relax her
she is gulty bt dont remind her those thing...
b her best frnd
2007-06-20 05:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by raxii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋