I am always with a new guy?

Question

I hate myself for it! I get a bf, and if things don't work out, we break up soon and I find another guy in a heartbeat and it's like a repeating pattern! I don't mean to hurt anybody, and I am 14 yrs old and still learning. The last 2 guys who liked/likes me asked me out but I said no. I didn't want to hurt anybody and I don't want a bf for a while. The 2 guys were best friends and I always end up getting between friendships somehow too! I feel so terrible, I can totally understand why guys can get mad at me. But how do I step away from these situations?

Answer 1

I understand what you mean. We are only human, and so are teens. It's good you aren't going out with anyone for now. I would most definitly keep it like that. With all these guys who like you, I could say you are probably really attractive. But you also need to keep your personality attractive and things will clean up more.

Answer 2

You are learning. Just take your time and think things through. If you had thought about the situation, you would have realized that these guys would have ended up having problems.

This advice is good for all decisions in life:

Always sit down and write the pros and cons of an action before you take the action.

Always consider how what you do will affect others before doing it.

You have just learned how to handle situations more maturely. It is up to you to use the advice.

Good Luck and take care.

Answer 3

Youre young and still exploring but theres is nothing wrong with that we grow we learn and then itll make you more wiser with your actions. One problem now for you is limit you don know how to control it but take it from the situation now, by you posting this question shows you are concern for others and yourself and that is a step to your limit of how much to avoid you being hurt or others ya.

Answer 4

Tell youself that you don't need anymore boyfriends to survive.

You can live your life alone, or just with friends...