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Okay I have kinda problem with guys.

Okay if you where to see me what would you think, & would you go up to me & talk?

I am a 15 yr old girl, with curly black hair, mexican, kinda of big butt (okay big butt), not 2 big boobs, nice personality, not very shy, good to talk to.

My problem is guys never come up to me & the ones that do are ugly ( no offence but they are). & my friend will introduce me to guys at partys & they will be ugly. I've just had very bad luck with guys & i dont know why I just want to know why the good guys dont talk 2 me or like me?

I know im not very old & I dont want any responces bout how I'm to young & that I should worry about school. & please dont critisize me about my spelling & just please help me out.

I have pictures:

http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa184/curlyy13/Picture081.jpg
http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa184/curlyy13/Picture082.jpg
http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa184/curlyy13/Picture015.jpg
http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa184/curlyy13/Me1.jpg

2007-06-19 18:17:22 · 18 answers · asked by .:CHULA:. 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

heres another pic:
http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa184/curlyy13/l_bfa1e331e654a1ab2ca44140762952251.jpg

2007-06-19 18:20:38 · update #1

Oh & the last picture of me is an old one & so is the one in the add details.

2007-06-19 18:22:20 · update #2

18 answers

You are a very pretty girl. Maybe guys are too intimidated to talk to you...it happens plenty especially around your age. Maybe they are afraid of rejection because you are a cute girl. I would say they are too afraid to approach you....so maybe you should start approaching guys....put yourself out there...and talk to them first. Then they may realize that they would have a shot with you and start talking to you. But guys are odd odd creatures (haha)...and sometimes they just dont know what to do...but I wouldnt worry about it being about you not being attractive because you are....just try approaching them...guys are wusses when it comes to asking pretty girls out ;) good luck and I hope you find a good guy!

2007-06-19 18:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0 0

I'm 13 but i still think u r pretty hot i saw yur pics f.y.i. in the last pic i think yur boobs were big plus u lok like a nice girl and fyi im an nice guy im hispanic with brown hair/with blonde highlights and brown eyes check out my profile.

2007-06-20 01:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by Joker 2 · 0 0

I am no where close to your age but i would imagine from the pics they are scared and intimidated by you if they are your age.

Be careful I hear you want attention from guys DONT let that control you and get into a dangerous situation older guys are gonna hit on you DONT give in to this just cause it can lead to ALOT of trouble. GOD BLESS

2007-06-20 01:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by musiclife 1 · 0 0

Giiiirl, I have no living idea why the good guy dont like you. You are sooo pretty. I really love your hair. Im serious about this. The boys around you just must have problems. I mean, look at you. Gorgeous.

But really, I have the same problem...Just ugly, or desperate guys talk to me, or want me. Its lame, but it happens.

2007-06-20 01:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 0 0

I would say you need to stop judging people by their looks and get to know their personality. You attract what you put out so hence maybe people see you as having an ugly personalitty and hence only having "ugly" guys come to you. Look at the inner beauty of people and you will find happiness don't judge purely by looks and appearance.

2007-06-20 01:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0 1

this is probably something that you dont want to hear but JUST BE YOURSELF... relax... be confident... and stop worrying... the reason you have bad luck with guys is because you worry bout it too much.... I have seen some very homely people attract some georgeous dates because they are secure in themselves and eminate beauty from their personality
Good Luck

2007-06-20 01:24:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberlie H 4 · 0 0

well, some guys feel/think that a particular girl is unreachable because of her appearance, looks, dressing style or for some other reason .. i think you have a nice parsonality and guys should approach you .. try to be little bit more friendly and don't show that you are different (even if you are different) .. i hope it will work ..

2007-06-20 01:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well, i'm 19, and i've been told i'm attractive (definitely not bragging so mean peeps go away haha), but ya, its hard for most guys in our age range to just walk up and initiate a conversation. it just depends on the personality. for guys you do find attractive, be outgoing and hint really well. if they hint back, tell them you like them. i wouldn't say its a confidence thing, but just nothing really to talk about? still working on that one...

2007-06-20 01:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by aggieman210 2 · 0 0

ur a cutey for a 15 year old, dont worry your time will come and youll find a nice guy

2007-06-20 01:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe you need to lower your standards physically and stop dissing guys just because you consider them to be unattractive. Looks aren't everything.

2007-06-20 01:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by flirtyangel86 2 · 1 0

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