from the very start, my boyfriend has known i'm a virgin saving myself for marriage. He too was upfront in telling me that he would have a hard time waiting but that he wanted to give it a shot.
Lately however, he's been hinting that its starting to bother him. For instance, we were talking about getting a room, just to have some time to ourselves and he said "why bother its not like we're going to do ANYTHING" Just little things like this and i know he's getting weary and so am i. I just don't wanna break up (and sleeping with him's NO option)
ps- we still do sexual "stuff" just not intercourse but everything right up to ( such as oral and making out and undressing etc..)
Input please..?
thanks♥
2007-06-19 18:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
UH ORAL IS SEX DEAR SO U MIGHT AS WELL MAKE HIM 100 % HAPPY
2007-06-19 18:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he's getting ansy* you need to talk to him about it. Let him know again, that you still havn't changed your mind, you're waiting for your wedding night..if what you two do together (orally etc) other than intercourse..and he's not happy with just that..then he needs to move on as do you.
Sorry to say, but some guys don't want to wait...especially when you're young..they just want to play the field until they decide to get married*
Don't give in to anyone and keep on being you* Keep on smilin*
2007-06-20 01:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well first off, to some people...oral is having sex and is "losing your virginity" although the hymen isn't touched or broken. and true, you do "things" together, but it's like building up to the climax and you just shut down on him...it's aggrivating. that's probably why he's a little more than frustrated. just try communicating with him keeping clear that actual vaginal sex isn't an option. ask him what would make him happy...or something like that.
2007-06-20 01:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your body you are allowed to waite if you feel unconfortable than don't do it If you are a virgin It's good to be oral.If he can't waite it's his problem mabey take it down a knoch mabey things are going to fast so stay with your felling's and do what feel's right to you.-Jessie<3
2007-06-20 01:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt worth it if he isnt willing to accept what you feel is right.. and you doing this for the wrong reasons will make you feel horrible later.. dont let him pressure you and if its to the point you cant stay with him it may be better for you to leave.. if he doesnt get his satisfaction in a relationship he may leave anyways.. but dont let that pressure you in a wrong way either..
2007-06-20 01:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to wait it out.. if your doing oral and things then that should be good enough.. tell him to wait or nothing.. not even oral if he cant wait... your doing all you can. to keep your virgintiy and should as you want to so tell him.. no... just oral.. for both of you i would hope...
2007-06-20 01:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great job! Good for you!! Stay with those morals!! Wait 'til your married. If he cannot wait for you than he's not the guy. Good luck.
2007-06-20 01:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u kidding me? there is nothing better than oral. all he has to do is just lay there and enjoy the ride...especially during football season.
2007-06-20 01:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well technically "oral" is making you not a virgin and depeding on your age how comfertable and how long you guys have been 2gether ............and if he is that concerned wit sleeping with you then he can go have sex wit himself
2007-06-20 01:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by xsweetypiex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if u dont want to have sex then dont its ur body not his!
2007-06-20 01:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by ~Green eyes~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋