What would you do if your boyfriend just broke up with you and you miss him so bad it hurts? I've never loved anyone the way I love him. It kind of scares me because I want him so bad. It's only been about two weeks since the break up. Two of my best friends are moving in about two months and I'm really bummed about that. I'll be starting seventh grade soon and I am so totally not looking forward to it. Is there any way I could possibly look at all these things as positive?
2007-06-19 17:45:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry you so sad hon. BUT there are good things coming..the seventh grade is a great time..and you will be exposed to new friends that can offer you new adventures...and thankfully with mail and internet you dont have to say completely good bye...as for the boy....you have a dog pile of them coming up in school..I know it hurts and u have prob. been overburdened with oh yyour to young to know love....blah blah blah..but it doesnt feel that way right now..so let yourself be sad for awhile..then use the experienceas a growing one..take the good things and look to replecate them in your next boyfriend..take the bad things and learn to avoid them....what boy did you have a major crush on maybe 3 years ago? Do you still go gaga over him or did you move on? In a few months the same will be of this..and someday..when mentioned hey remember when u were in love with so and so the summer b4 7th grad your going to say ..OMG>>>LOLOL.....be good to your heart and talk it out with all the ppl who care about u....dont let it take u down....stay connected however u can with those friends and have fun with knew ones ..that will introduce u to a new circle of guys too.
i wish the best for you dear.....
u deserve happiness so TAKE IT
peace.blessings
RUe
2007-06-19 17:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Unitsi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally know how you feel. Even though he broke up with you doesn't mean y'all can't be friends and if he doesn't want to be friends, At least you know that he didn't feel the same way about you the way you felt for him. Also your a teen your going to fell that way about a lot of guys. I should know I'm entering 8th grade soon. But the fact is boys in Middle school are going through that same hormonal phrases and I think the last thing on their mind is a truly committed relationship, They want to be players not all boys but a good amount and I know it hard but you just going to have to let him go. I found it a lot easier to find a new crush and talk about him kept my mind off my ex's and as for your friends yeah it going to be hard but you can still email, mail, and call them. And this way you have room for new best friend that way you will have long distance best friend and close at home best friends. Jut because they move doesn't mean you have to lose touch.
2007-06-19 17:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i loved a person like u did...it would hurt me too...so yeah i understand that,and also ur friends,yeah that would hurt.But look in the bright side there are so many other guys out there ur young..ur going to find the right guy for that will make you happy...ur starting another year you'll find new friends that may become ur best friends...look in the bright side there is always light.. and cry all u want it will make u feel better do not hold in those feeling...after that u will feel o.k... and remember in a few yrs you will laugh at this moment......i hope u the best wishes
2007-06-19 17:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL YOU ARE SO YOUNG!! that is the beginning. You had a bad break up but i promise you that you will get over it and find someone so much better in high school and beyond who has so much depth than the guy you left. You think you loved him, wait until you get older. Love has so much more layers and better and even worse moments. You have to go through one bad breakup to start off, but things may hurt just as much, but they will get easier and relationships will get harder but the love you will feel will be so much worth it hun!
keep your head up because there is so much in store for you!
2007-06-19 17:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by orangepeel304 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that you're feeling quite down at the moment as everything seems like it's falling apart.
You're going through 'teenagism" ...Did your boyfriend give you a reason why he wanted to end your relationship? and although that sure does 'suck'..you're young and have your whole life ahead of you to date , get married etc*
You miss having him around, someone who paid attention to you, was fun to do things with...but it scares you as it's something new to have felt that strongly towards someone, who ended up breaking your heart. YOu miss the times you spent together. But for some reason, it wasn't meant to be, now tis time to move on*~ I know that sounds cold, but tis the truth*~ You will continue to grow and will date guys..have fun , then move on until you're older and find "the right" guy for you~
With having your two best friends moving away in the summer, that really makes you feel very abandoned..but remember, you'll still know ppl in your school, and town you live in..your two best friends have to start all over making new friends with ppl who already have their own 'groups' of friends. They also have to adjust living in a new place/town/street, new school etc* You just have to do what you have to do and move forward in life. Take each thing as a new experience and remember it~ Starting 7th grade is exciting yet can be stressfull also, knowing that you'll be going to school without your two best friends. But again, everyone is feeling the same way you are, with change..something new/different..you'll meet new ppl and becomes great friends with them. Try to continue keeping in touch with your other 2 friends that are moving away via email or letters in the post, or msn/yahoo messenger...They'll be missing you also*
To look at all these things in a positive aspect..Look at it as one of Lifes Mysterys....the ups and downs of growing up* You meet ppl that touch your heart and leave, and others that can stab you in the back ..take each experience and learn from it*
Try to be the Best you can be* Know that you will find someone who will love you for you, and want to spend time with you, have fun with you, go places with you....your b/friend (ex) will be moving on with his life, you need to do the same,. Pick yourself up and reach for what you want out of life~ Stay strong and keep on smilin*
You'll be just fine~ Takecare~
2007-06-19 18:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course...you have to be very positive you still have a whole life ahead of you middle school is nothing it's just getting you ready for high school, you'll just look back laugh about it or not even remember...and that's where they'll be so many boys you wont even know what to do.
2007-06-19 17:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are in seventh grade....... I promise you this heart ache will pass and before you know it the next boy will come along...... Just remember a strong women does not need a man....... Boys are just trouble....... Wait till later to date!
2007-06-19 17:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yess. Because you'll soon find somebody much better than your ex. He will just become a memory in no time!
2007-06-19 18:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by kongkong 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about why he broke up with you.
"What hurts the most, was being so close, and having so much to say, and watching you walk away"
2007-06-19 17:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by DaClint 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no but wait til you get older things get lots worse! youll have boys come and go the hardest to lose is yours girls! but thank god for internet right?
2007-06-19 17:49:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋