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I want to get a bf but am i too young....r u in a relationship? how is it

2007-06-19 17:38:53 · 30 answers · asked by Bon 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

30 answers

Dont get a BF for the sake of getting a BF

Get one if you actually like the boy

2007-06-19 17:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by a person 5 · 3 0

If you are 15, and relatively mature, I'd say go for it.
However, like everyone else on here said : KEEP IT PG RATED!
Please wait for sex, 'cuz trust me - it aint all that great, and if you lose it with the wrong guy... well.. You'll regret and remember the REST OF YOUR LIFE!
I know because I lost my virginity at 15 in a foreign country... and what if I got pregnant? The father would be across the ocean!
Stupid, huh? Well, hormones make you do stupid things honey.
BUT.
If you ARE ready for sex, get on birth control - NuvaRing is what I'm on, and it's really easy and safer than the pill.
http://www.nuvaring.com
Trust me, sometimes condoms aren't enough. I had a pregnancy scare not too long ago, turns out there was a tiny rip in the condom. Lucky for me, my guy is older, has a house, and would have been able to provide for me if we suddenly became parents.
I can't tell you how scary it is to miss your period.
BE SAFE AND USE YOUR HEAD!

2007-06-19 18:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by werebiatch 1 · 0 0

I don't think you are too young for a relationship but you may be too young for an adult relationship. But make sure you like the guy first, don't just pick the first guy that asks you out for the sake of it, that's not a real relationship lol!

Keep it age appropriate - kissing, hanging out with other friends with boyfriends, group date, go to the movies, go out for macca's, go to the video arcades, hang out at the beach or pool. Keep it fun and keep active. Avoid alcohol and being alone at night in a bedroom with him lol! Especially if you dont want to get yourself in a situation where you may be pressured to do something you aren't ready to do.

Aslo keep in mind young boys are trying to have sex, they do have testosterone which gives them that "mounting" instinct and it's very strong.

If you think you may be ready to have sex be sure to get yourself on the pill and ALWAYS use condoms. Respect and love yourself and your body. Don't let yourself get pregnant or catch an STD so early on in your life as the consequences will have a profound change on your life.

Keep it fun girl!

2007-06-19 17:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No luv,you are not too young for a relationship.But be carefull when jumping into the waters.Before starting a relatrionship be friendly with him.Take some time.Be friends for a while and get to know the person.Then take a decision.

2007-06-19 18:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am 17...I have been dating my boyfriend since I was 15..right at the end of 15, though...
It's great...it is hard, though.
A bit of advice: Don't fall too hard too fast or too young. (I love my boyfriend, but I fell in love too young, and it is hard to keep the relationship working around school and such...) Right now, just focus on dating, holding hands, kissing...don't worry about anything but having fun.
You're not too young to have a boyfriend, just heed my advice, and have fun!! :-D

2007-06-19 17:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

i was in my first relationship when i was 14. i thought i was in love with him, but really now that i have been in real relationships, that one seems like a joke. I had no clue what to do, or how to even treat him right, and niether did he. AND to make matters worse, obviously niether of us could drive yet so to see each other, our parent had to drive us, and we basically had no alone time because of that. I know how you are feeling, you want a bf just to want one, but my advise would be not to settle just for anyone just to have a bf. Wait for someone awesome who you really like, and who would in the long run be worth the hassle of having your parents drive you guys places, etc. Good luck!!

2007-06-19 17:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by katie l 2 · 2 0

Do what makes you happy. Don't just get a boyfriend to have arm candy thats inmature. Do it because you like the boy. And move on a pase thats right for you, just because other people in relationships might be doing things doesn't mean you have too. Trust me, you'll regret it. I've had plenty of boy friends and if theres one thing in a relationship you'll need is self respect. Never let them make you do something you don't want to. And if they treat you badly, just dump them. Why stick around for them to hurt you more? right?
So do what YOU feel YOUR ready for.
Best of luck.

2007-06-19 17:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by bethhannyy 1 · 2 0

i am 15...as a young teen i think that i should date around and kick it with friends rather than put myself in a relationship....i dont have a car or job so what can i do? so i think that its best to not have sex either because there is no point...so i dont think that a relationship can be considered a relationship at this age...did that make sense? im talking out of my a$$ but whatever....take my advice...and it pisses me off when girls my age say that they heve been in love....its dumb

2007-06-19 17:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

how exactly are you too young? i'm 16, and i had my first real boyfriend last year at age 15. it was a lot of fun getting to know him and myself as a matter of fact. but it also was akward and weird at times. you really get to know what you're type is and who you tend to like. i think you're first bf is kinda..a practice guy? to learn how to kiss really good and learn how to be a great girlfriend. i don't think you're too young and i hope this information helps =]

2007-06-19 17:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by heyheyitsjulie 1 · 0 1

i don't think it's too young. i'm not in a relationship, but i think that everyone's is diferent and you will expierience so many things both good and bad. It's not something I would rush or particularly go seeking for. It will happen, and when it does, just be open to it.

2007-06-19 17:45:24 · answer #10 · answered by orangepeel304 5 · 2 0

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