I mean, seriously, in 99.9999999999% dates you spend hours, repeat, hours talking and doing things you have no interest in whatsoever, and then find out that you probably won't have sex, and if you do have sex you are most likely to find it less enjoyable than your right hand and a porn movie, because she won't let you do this and won't let you do that, acting like a virgin but in fact she has slept around with a lot of guys you have never met. Somehow she has this princess syndrom that drives you nuts. At the end of the day you wonder why the heck you asked her out in the first place.
2007-06-19 17:38:48 · 15 answers · asked by DeadmanWalks 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL im sorry i just found this funny...What do you suggest people to instead of dating??? I would love to know....
2007-06-19 17:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With an attitude like that, you're not going to get far in a relationship*
What is it You want? Just casual dating? sex and no attachements? a long term relationship?
If you're just into a one night stand..you can go to a bar or the beach and pick someone up for that*
If you're wanting long term relationship..your best bet is to meet some of your friends, friends...
You will eventually meet the right one, and you'll know it. They'll know you and you'll know them right from the get go. You'll feel like you've known each other for years*~ Your heart will race with anticipation of seeing her again etc*
For now, you're just not that interested in anyone..you havn't clicked* with that special someone.
Also...when it comes to sex...you also have to be patient..sure she may have already 'given it out' but has this 'princess' way about her...but do you honestly want a girl that's ready to just give it up* any time or any place?? When the time is right and things are going good for you both, I'm sure you'll 'get some', but if that's the only reason you want a girl...is to 'get some and have your way with her'...i doubt that will happen anytime soon, but goodluck with that*~
2007-06-19 17:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I think you just haven't found the right girl yet. I bet when you do your tune will change and you won't be anty dating, unfortunanly it's a part of life we date to get the girl/guy we want so we must go on dates to assess if they are the right one for us.
2007-06-19 17:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you really have the wrong idea. I date to have company doing stuff that I want to do. Why would you wanna go out and pay to do something you don't want to do? If you are not having fun, you are not being fun. No wonder you are dating and not getting laid.
2007-06-19 17:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like you have had experience in this matter.. most people date because they want to find something or someone to make them whole.. a best friend to be with for the rest of their life..
2007-06-19 17:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry that your dates go that way but a lot of people enjoy meeting new people and a lot want to find that one special person.
dates-at least most people's-don't revolve around sex.
2007-06-19 17:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by orangepeel304 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then how will you find your soulmate ? How can you know someone better if you never date or spend some time with her ?
2007-06-19 17:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by fnurbayani 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I dated to find my future wife - not a one-night stand. Thankfully, I've found her. I think you need to readjust how you approach dating.......and how you treat women.
2007-06-19 17:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is knowing that people like you are out there that I don't date.
2007-06-19 17:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dateing is to get to know that person and most ofbthe time to let that person know you like him/her. it is also very enjoyable to know a person likes you and wants to get 2 know u it is pretty sweet (especially on guys)
2007-06-19 17:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by *~Oo `PaLOmiTa` oO~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋