is anyone a psychic? I need to know if I'm going to find someone...?

Question

I'm a single mother of twin 13 year olds. I've been single for 11 of those years. My kids are important to me but i need someone to grow old with. I don't want to seem desparate, but I feel so helpless. Please only serious answers. Keep the imaturity to yourself...

Answer 1

Listen Kristen, mother of twins,13.
I assure you a psychic is the last person in the world you might need to solve your problem.
Kristen,
You need to solve the problem by yourself but I can help you just a little a bit.
So instead of waiting for that nice future to come to you, you need to build it by your own hands.
They are so much of cliches, but look at it this way:
I'm sure you are so busy with your life and beautiful twins that you have almost forgot YOURSELF.
When was the last time you went out on a date?
When was teh last time you went to a nice shopping mall with your female friends?
When was the last time you were in a bar or night club having fun with a group of friends?
I bet even YOU cannot remember the exact dates.
So here is the deal sweetheart:
I know that to single mothers, her children always come first.
A lot of guys also know this and avoid dating single mothers(This is only true about single guys and those who do not have any kids)
Therefore you'll have a better chance looking for single fathers.
Someone with one kid would be best.
And I'm sure you can find plenty of these guys.
And trust me on this sweetheart, a lot of these single fathers treat women more maturely than those exciting, attractive, masculine and dominant naughty boys do.
Cause through their lonely life, they've learnt the true meaning of mutual understanding.
Just look for those who have very good relationships with their daughters or sons.
And believe that what you feel as "i need someone to grow old with", they feel it too.
So you'll have a very easy time getting along with eachother.

But I have to tell you some bad news.
If you don't go out, don't take care of yourself and do not have some specifice time for your own, then I'm afraid you'll ruin 90% of your chances on finding a good mate.
You must accept that your kids are teens now and so they can somehow take care of themselves at home when you spend a night out on a date and come back late mid night.

You must show to the guy that eventhough your kids ate VERY important to you, they are not going to take any of HIS place in your heart.

So as I said, you won't have much chances sitting at home and waiting for your prince charm to come with a white horse and knock at your door.
You must look for him and believe that he is LOOKING for you too.

Sweetheart, you are going to need a psychic as much as you need a psycho.
Don't even think about neither of them.

Believe in yourself, stand up and look for HIM.

Cheers!

Answer 2

I agree with one of the other answerer, I don't really think a psychic will do much over the internet/ radio/ telephone.
I'd say to just try to spend more time out of the house (when you can). You may meet men you like at buisiness parties etc. If there are no events being held soon, see if you can get your kids out of the house and hold one yourself. Tell your friends to bring friends, and you will meet new people. Try not to be shy. Get out there and go for it! You've waited eleven freakin years, you deserve it. Even if you don't find someone right away, a change in scenery and a break from everyday responsibility will definitely do you good. Best wishes!

Answer 3

Your future is never set in stone. If I were to tell you that I was a psychic and that you were going to die in a car accident tomorrow, then you wouldn't you just not leave the house?

Everything a psychic has to say is FAR too vague, like "I get a faint impression"; or when they're not vague, they're adamant about something very general "you will definitely have love in your life". Nothing of what the psychics say is of any real consequence. Sure, there are some on TV (Sylvia Brown) who spout out very specific information, but they do so in such a way that leave the person with little opportunity to challenge her, or when they DO challenge her, it's brushed off as THEM being wrong "no, sweety... it's true." Then there's no follow up to find out if it is true.

UPDATE: See Ashley's cop-out: "Don't quote me..." on the specific aspect of her 'vision'.

Then you have the James Randi Million Dollar Challenge: James Randi has, for years, been offering $1 Million to anybody who can prove the existence of anything supernatural (including psychic ability). So far, nobody has even come close.

Answer 4

I really understand your situation, coz my mom is a single mother too. And I used to tell her to find someone, coz I know that she needs someone to grow old with (just like you feel now). The reason why I suggest you and her to find someone new, is because in the next few years, your twin will be grown up, and they will meet their spouse, and they will have their own family and their own life. They won`t be there for you all the time, 24 hours, coz they also have to take care of their own children. It doesn`t mean that they ignore you, but they can`t 100 % focus on you.

So, yes, try to find someone as your partner, if you can. :) You need someone by your side to take care of you only, to share the days with you, and everything just with you.

Answer 5

First, you need to stop wishing this upon yourself and start believing it. Be convinced that a.) You are worth it b.) you are capable and c.) that it WILL happen. Nothing will happen if you don't believe it. I can offer you various spells or rituals to aid this. One last thing to consider is your children's welfare. Court, date, see guys, but make sure your kids are first and that you bring someone into their life that they can accept. 80% of the step parents i've met are disgraceful. You'll get what you need though, its inevitable.

Answer 6

being psychic is not something you can do over the internet

you would need someone more local

Answer 7

there really are no psychics.[sorry.]