I met this gorgeous guy in my class. He is from Pennsylvania and unfortunately he'll be leaving in two weeks, so basically I'll never meet him again. We hang out once and I can tell he likes me. At the end of out date he asked me to go to his house and watch some movies but I said no even though i kind of wanted to go. I am still a virgin and I don't know if I should trust my lust or think about my deep feelings. Help
2007-06-19 17:07:39 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it girl! you onl live once and if you will never see him again might as well
2007-06-19 17:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by The Prince 2 · 6⤊ 10⤋
You have to keep in mind this happened BEFORE you asked her out. It doesn't matter if that it was two weeks... hell, it could've been one week or two days before. She didn't cheat on you, so why does it bother you so much? Eventhough during that time you were really making an effort to get to know her better, it doesn't mean she can't have fun with other guys at the same time. She was single before you asked her out... she could do whatever she pleased. I don't think talking about how you feel about that incident to her would make things any better. I think the best thing to do is to wait it out and eventually you will get past it.
2016-05-20 03:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are a virgin I would definatley encourage not to give into lust on your first time. You will more than likely end up emotionally hurt. Sex is a very personal thing and should be shared with someone you know and care about. You don't know this boy really, and on a logical level you don't know how many women he has been with or his sexual history. You can be catching more than a heartbreak from this fling. Stds, and HIV are freely given out now days
2007-06-19 17:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by SeXySoApYbUbBlEs 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Depending on the values you have, you might feel guilty to do it with a virtual stranger that you will never see again. But if this thought doesn't bother you, then you should consider it because honestly, sex is never really good for a girl the first time anyway, so you could get it over with, and never have to deal with awkwardness. But for goodness sake, use a condom or three!
2007-06-19 17:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
DONT DO IT, DONT DO IT, DONT DO IT.
It won't be as fun as you think it will be because losing your V is usually quite painful.
On top of that, you very well may see him again, and you don't know where or when. Just because you think you won't see him again, doesn't mean that you won't. It's a small world, after all.
B-sides, if you see him again, do you want him to think of you as the slutty lay he got before going back home. What if, by chance, in the future you are engaged to one of his family members and you don't know it...then he introduces you to his brother, cousin, good friend, etc. The brother/cousin/friend turns out to be him. Then how would you feel.
Don't count anything out, stranger things have happened.
2007-06-19 17:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
Are you sure you want to give up your virginity to someone your never gone see again? That doesn't sound very romantic to me. Why not wait and give it up to somebody who will appreciate it more? Your only a virgin once ya know.
2007-06-19 17:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
if your a virgin and just want to get rid of it then go.. but if your waiting for mr right to take it away then dont... it is up to you.. if you want it.. go for it. .. it might be a fun filled night.. but only for one night... and you will never be a virgin again.. make sure your on top the first time..
2007-06-19 17:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No! Neither lust or deep feeling. But you should build a better friendship with him so that you are able to see and meet him again in the future. :)
2007-06-19 17:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If it is your first time no because it has to be special and with someone you love. In the end you have to ask yourself how would you feel about yourself afterwards? Would you be able to respect yourself the next day?
2007-06-19 17:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by eladshefer 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think personally it is a little slutty
you been a virgin all this time and want to lose it on a one night stand? i would wait until i LOVED someone, not because they are gorgeous
2007-06-19 17:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Christina V 7 · 9⤊ 4⤋
what you do is always your choice --- you have to accept the consequences --- at the same time maybe all he wants to do is watch a movie -- to be with you alone ---- enjoy
2007-06-19 17:11:56 · answer #11 · answered by trader1867 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋